"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What would you do if you were in my situation? I'm sorta pissed

Heman6

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There's a chick one of my classes who is actually nice looking and everything. I made a mental note to talk to her but she's embarresed me already in class. On the second day I had to get up and talk and admittedly I was having some difficulties since I wasn't prepared. Well this girl who I don't even know and never even seen before just decides to be a smart ass and shouts out 'come on girlfriend' infront of the whole class. I have to say I did a good job in the sense were in the past that would stop me in my tracks but I just laughed it off and treated it as no big deal...on the SURFACE but deep down I was like "aww you ****ing ****, what are you retarded?". While I know she was probably just joking around and is probably a bit into herself because she is remotely attractive I know she wouldn't of liked to be in that same position. I considered getting revenge on her and doing the same at the right time but I think I just might let it go.

The good news is in another class i talked to two good looking girls and we got along.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dont you have any respect Man? Bust her balls. Embarrass her. Then ignore her. There are others who are better.
 

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the dopey fool disrespected me when i was considering getting to know her. she thinks she's all that but she's sadly mistaken there are lots of good looking one's with better personalities, i will just go after them. her snatch aint that big of a deal. this is the conclusion i came to when i woke up this morning anyway.
 

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kokane said:
Dont you have any respect Man? Bust her balls. Embarrass her. Then ignore her. There are others who are better.
I agree, but want to add: do it in humor, not malice. and dont ignore, moreover act ****y to her, and indifferent to her possible interest. this is one of many ways "alpha bad boys" get chicks.
 

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it has nothing to do with lacking self respect. if it was a different scenario i would've been a smart ass but i was caught off guard because i was giving a speech and was already put on the spot as it was with everyone looking at me...plus i've never even seen her in my life and what she said was incredibly lame to begin with and i'm not even sure if worthy of a response at how lame it was. i don't think she is a horrible person or really meant harm, i'm sure she was just trying to be a smart ass because she was laughing as she said it but it was horrible timing on her part. the profess. was like 'oh they must've dated before' lol. i will say i'm dissapointed it got to me. i handled it better compared to how i used to but still need to improve in this area. i'm looking to get to the point comments from women have no effect on me at all, like a real man, and they shouldn't because after all and i don't care if this improper to say but opinions from the sex that don't know what they are doing half the time and rationalize staying with slime who treat them badly really shouldn't mean **** to me.

and like i said i met two other hot girls and can always meet others and will throughout the semester so it doesn't even matter to me, from now on this will be my time. the one that embarresed me isn't all that special even though i know she thinks she is because she was a born with a hole. i did think she was cute at first when i saw her but after what she did she must not respect me for whatever reason and i didn't necessarily like what she did anyway so it's safe to say we will not exactly be having tea in the future.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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trent81

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Listen to me you piece of shivt,

Time to be a man. When she said that, you say "Why don't you shut your fuvking mouth so I can focus here". When you say something like this, even the teacher will respect you. Now, here is how you get revenge. She doesn't respect you so you go for the second biggest g spot that pisses off a woman;


THERE ARE TWO THINGS IN THIS WORLD THAT MAKE A WOMAN ANGRY

1) HER WEIGHT

2) THE FACT THAT YOU HEARD, OR EXPERIENCED, HOW LOOSE HER PUSSVY IS.

THE SECOND ONE SHOULD BE USED AS THE LAST OPTION. IT DEVESTATES A WOMAN.
 

Heman6

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keyboard commando, real life isn't like the movies. your approach will not win you any favors unless you want to be known as the angry, lonely guy who looks like he has problems and is probably plotting to shoot up the community.

now picking on her weight and sluttiness is good if you actually know her and it's warranted. bringin it up over ever minor thing just makes you look like a tool. but you keep going with your approach, i'm sure you will go far
 

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Maybe she likes you and that was her way of getting your attention. Maybe that was her way of being ****y and funny.
Anyways, I'm pretty sure that you will be seeing more of her because this incident will be burning in the back of your mind and it will surface every time you see her. I would do something about it and not just let it stay like it is, confronting her with a c&f attitude would be a good way to do it.
Edit: The reason for confronting her is to stop her from doing it again and to show her that she needs to respect you regardless of if you like her or not.
 
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