"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What Would Yall Do

djweses89

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haha well i got this girl on the ropes she wants me i can tell she smiles everytime she sees me face lights up all that stuff can def tell. So what just wonder how would yall go at it shes in my 4th period so i always have a lil time to talk to her during school of course. but ether way ima get hook up im just cerious of how yall would go about the situation.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Luke_0209

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Wtf do you think were gonna say, obviously ask her if would like to do something on the weekend.

Actually no I take it back, ask her if shes wants to get it on in the janitors closet... thats how you'll win her over!
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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first, you over-analyze it and come up with a plan on what youre going to say to her

second, you write out every smooth line youre going to say to her.

third, take that list to your class with her and read it off to her.

fourth, now that she cannot control her hands and take them off of you... go for a kiss.


there.
 

djweses89

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agian im not tryin to find out what to do but theres alot of ways you come at it im askin what way would yall come at this.
 
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