"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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what would u have done?

afc_2_dj

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Okay, I was in a club this weekend, and had what I am sure the DJ's would flag as a good oppertunity to move on a chick, but as always I just moved on.

I was on my way back to the dance floor , and pushing my way thru I stood on a girls foot a bit, she tapped me on the shoulder and said "hey, u stood on my toes!" , so I just said , "sorry", the she lifted her foot and said "kiss it!" so i just pecked the top of her shoe, which she found hilarous, responded with a half-hug, I hugged back laughed and went back to my friends.

Totally AFC IMHO, what would u have done?!?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yep, that was totally supplicatory. Shouldv'e fired back with some ****y+funny bs. I'm not good at thinking on my feet either, or the whole "game talking". I definitely wouldn't have kissed the b1tch's feet though....
 

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Luke, what's with the capital letters?

lol, nice troll afc2dj guy:) Really fancy

If a girl did that to me, it'd be pretty funny to get down there. I wouldn't be stupid enough to actually put my mouth on her shoes.

After I got the hug, I'd ask where her friends were, introduce myself to them. Switch back to talking to her, get a few good laughs, than try to isolate her.

The only AFC thing you did was walking away.
 
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