"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

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what would it take to put ultimately put women back in their place?

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me and a friend were discussing this earlier. what would it take to ultimately put women back in their place? lets say we have an apocalyptic scenario, lots of people die, and everybody loses it. dangerous strangers roam the land, food is short, we have to hunt our food or farm it, theres no medical help, no poleese, etc.

i think that women would once again depend on men for survival. it would take a total paradigm shift. and their favor in men would shift toward those who have skill. just like in ancient times, those had skill, intelligence, and technology were the ones who survived. survival of the fittest...not the ones with courtship skills or a big mouth or are the best looking.
as a modern society we have changed since ancient times. i think this article makes a good point.
http://approachanxiety.com/2011/02/how-to-be-a-true-alpha-male/
imagine this above scenario in reverse.
so they would no longer behave like princesses anymore, they would have to assume the role of man's helper once again.
my friend says " i dunno man, we have technology today. even a woman can pull a trigger." i said,"yeah thats true. but how many of these princess biatches we got running around today do you think would have the mental toughness or the strength to survive in a world like that?". to which he had no answer. the spoiled princesses would be the first to go. they have a mental break down over one rejection for gods sake. in an apocalyptic world they would cry for daddy to protect them.
of course a lot of men couldnt handle it either. i think i could do it, being i grew up hunting and farming, so i have some survival skills.
im talking about this because the behavior of most females today just makes me sick. something needs to happen. im all for stepping up my own game and improving myself. i keep at it, but how disrespectful and dishonest women are still disgusts me. i lose respect for them everyday. i seriously believe this would be the only scenario that would fix the whole thing.

so what is your opinions on this?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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these are women articles , the commando is the alpha , even in monkeys the most ready male to fight is the alpha .
you can put women in their place only if the police dont stand between you and your wife , visit a lot of countries that police dont come if the husband hit the wife.
submitting women is so easy that is why they are afraid from any real man remaining in these countries , they know how much they are weak
 

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spang said:
so what is your opinions on this?
Well, I think you're a lot angrier than most guys I know. So there's that.

I don't know that it takes an apocalyptic scenario for women to get "put back in their place". There are plenty of guys out there getting laid. It's not like there are armies of single men in the streets, rioting because of lack of success with women.

If some bomb destroyed society, and women became reliant upon men for survival, then yeah...I guess you'd have a steady, reliable girlfriend. But a relationship built on dependence isn't going to be nearly as fun for you as a relationship built on sexual interest or love. If your goal is to have some broad follow you around because you can hunt possum and plant potatoes, then yeah, I guess your scenario would work. But that just sounds like two people desperately clutching to each other.

I still think that complaints like yours comes back to investing time in low quality or disinterested women. I have a number of friends who are not "cool" or "suave" that have healthy relationships with women. Sure girls are annoying and flaky and b!tchy, but it's not THAT bad out there.
 

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I have a number of friends who are not "cool" or "suave" that have healthy relationships with women.
Yeah, but they're Betas, so that doesn't count. ;)

That was a joke, note the winky smily face. I know you don't always get my humor.

Anyway, I agree things aren't as bad as some make them seem. As long as you have some value to you in some form or other, there are going to be girls out there to at least go out with.

But I'm not sure if the OP is just talking about getting laid, maybe he's talking about the feminist agenda in general. If he's talking about putting things back to the way they were in the 50s or before, it probably would take some sort of apocolyptic event, or at least a very large economic disaster the likes of which we haven't seen yet.
 

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I think all it takes is one man at a time wising up and setting boundaries and enforcing them. Eventually when enough men do this, women's behavior as a group will change for the better. Unchecked behavior only gets worse over time.

When bad behavior consistently brings bad consequences with it, there will be no incentive to behave badly.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Both the Ragged D1ck and the isolated frontier models ultimately fail. What's needed is a correction of community life.

I agree that a long-term solution does not exist under liberal capitalism (precisely because feminism is the liberal, anti-man form of sex discrimination). However, we can push back feminism if we get the liberals to do the dirty work for us.

In another thread some months ago, I suggested that we advocate the complete banning of animal products. Without high-hormone foods in which to hide injections of even more hormones, women (and men) won't have precocious puberty. People will develop mentally for a few more years. Not like now, where virtually all women and a good chunk of men are Forever 13.

Spreading contraceptives is the foot in the door to selling cheating, divorce, and abortion. We should start some sort of rumor campaign that taking progesterone ruins a woman's health -- sort of like the campaign against cholesterol. Basically, we need to defacto criminalize contraceptives.

The other suggestion is obvious. Wages must rise drastically. If men make a lot more money, women will have the luxury to live on men and raise their babies. That'll take a lot of women out of the workforce, and further increase wages for men. The whole culture will go back to supporting marriage.
 
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Yeah, but they're Betas, so that doesn't count. ;)

That was a joke, note the winky smily face. I know you don't always get my humor.

Anyway, I agree things aren't as bad as some make them seem. As long as you have some value to you in some form or other, there are going to be girls out there to at least go out with.

But I'm not sure if the OP is just talking about getting laid, maybe he's talking about the feminist agenda in general. If he's talking about putting things back to the way they were in the 50s or before, it probably would take some sort of apocolyptic event, or at least a very large economic disaster the likes of which we haven't seen yet.
i really am baffled by all the feminist posts and **** like that on this forum.

the answer is pre k easy.

STOP ****ING DEALING WITH THEM.


lol


that's all you have to do. lol you know what i did when i wanted to stop dealing wtih stoned drugged out people all the time? i stopped doing drugs lol. funny how that worked. when i got tired of dealing with ghetto girls who didn't have a clue what a real man was, i didn't ***** about what we have to do to get ghetto women to act right, i just stopped giving them the time of day once i saw what they were.


do you honesty, sit here and believe that you are on a mission to cure america from the ills of society?

Just learn the most important word in your vocabulary

next.

It's like in AA they teach you, one of the most important things you will learn is that, I can't control my addiction once i Use, but one thing i can control is i can control the people around me, the places I go and the things I do. And those things in turn, help me manage my addiction on a daily basis.

lol it's like the drug addict that keeps going in the dope house and keeps wondering why everyone in america is so high . motherfvcker just leave lol.

I guess because i have had some real **** that I had to learn how to deal with, this bull **** to me is a walk in the park.

And the same dudes here that tell me oh you think you are such a DJ you next a girl for anything man, are the same ones who ***** day in and day out about feminist and trashy women ruining society, yet dont seem to get the correlation. I have been with my wife for 4 years now, i can count on one hand the amount of times we have actually got into an argument. cooks with no problem, washes my clothes, irons them lol, if i tell her i want a cake or some **** she will go make one and on top of all that she's still smoking hot. no drama, no hassle, no games, just the byproduct of working plates and screening women the proper way.


Look guys i mean, this **** is very ****ing simple. make a list of the things you want in your life. Make another list of the things that a woman can do to take you away form those things. and when you see a quality in a woman that is going to take you off your path, hit the eject button. it's really that simple. i promise.

who the **** cares if a girl tinks her **** doesn't stink because she has a lot of friends on Facebook i have much more important **** to worry about then this petty ass bull****. I really do. if a girl thinks I'm too preppy/black/short/arrogant/too small a ****/whatever the ****, I DON'T GIVE A ****. OKAY YOU AREN'T COMPARABLE BYE. JUST ****ING BYE.

i MEAN GOD GUYS ****.. the same ****ing threads over and over again. just ****ing say bye


the problem, and i did the same thing when i got here.. see, you guys think that the reason you are here is to get laid. that's only half right.

once you actually get your **** wet, youw ill learn that, getting laid is not the primary objective.

getting laid, with as little stress and drama as possible, is the primary objective. thus, getting stressed out ***** does me no good.


I once had a girl get on the phone in the middle of a movie.. an opening day movie at that. i want to say it was casino royle. i didn't try to gam her talk her into getting off the phone, i threw 60 dollars on her lap and told the ***** to catch a cab home and went home.

i once went on a date to as pizza place in little rock called shotgun dans (damn that **** is on point i miss shotgun dans). girl kept telling me about how her ex said this and that.. 5 mintues into the date i told her gto get in the car and took her home and never called her again.

i went on a date with a girl once, evren got a BJ out of it on the way home, girl called me the next day asking for 5o dollars. never spoke to her again

****. the. drama. **** it. you guys got to get militant with that ****.
 

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Nothing drastic has to happen. Just go back to the ways things were even as recently as the early 1960's, when things were better in general anyway. If you take away affirmative action and preferential treatment of females in school and employment, get rid of no-fault divorce where women initiate divorce 90% of the time, get rid of welfare for able bodied women to have children and live without a man, reform child support, maybe stop funding planned parent hood etc. Basically take away all the preferntial treatment and programs that allow women to exist financially independently of a man.
 

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So you think the only way women will start seeing you as valuable is if there is an apocalyptic event that would make them need to rely on hunter/gatherers like yourself?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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backbreaker said:
i really am baffled by all the feminist posts and **** like that on this forum.

the answer is pre k easy.

STOP ****ING DEALING WITH THEM.


lol


that's all you have to do. lol you know what i did when i wanted to stop dealing wtih stoned drugged out people all the time? i stopped doing drugs lol. funny how that worked. when i got tired of dealing with ghetto girls who didn't have a clue what a real man was, i didn't ***** about what we have to do to get ghetto women to act right, i just stopped giving them the time of day once i saw what they were.


do you honesty, sit here and believe that you are on a mission to cure america from the ills of society?

Just learn the most important word in your vocabulary

next.

It's like in AA they teach you, one of the most important things you will learn is that, I can't control my addiction once i Use, but one thing i can control is i can control the people around me, the places I go and the things I do. And those things in turn, help me manage my addiction on a daily basis.

lol it's like the drug addict that keeps going in the dope house and keeps wondering why everyone in america is so high . motherfvcker just leave lol.

I guess because i have had some real **** that I had to learn how to deal with, this bull **** to me is a walk in the park.

And the same dudes here that tell me oh you think you are such a DJ you next a girl for anything man, are the same ones who ***** day in and day out about feminist and trashy women ruining society, yet dont seem to get the correlation. I have been with my wife for 4 years now, i can count on one hand the amount of times we have actually got into an argument. cooks with no problem, washes my clothes, irons them lol, if i tell her i want a cake or some **** she will go make one and on top of all that she's still smoking hot. no drama, no hassle, no games, just the byproduct of working plates and screening women the proper way.


Look guys i mean, this **** is very ****ing simple. make a list of the things you want in your life. Make another list of the things that a woman can do to take you away form those things. and when you see a quality in a woman that is going to take you off your path, hit the eject button. it's really that simple. i promise.

who the **** cares if a girl tinks her **** doesn't stink because she has a lot of friends on Facebook i have much more important **** to worry about then this petty ass bull****. I really do. if a girl thinks I'm too preppy/black/short/arrogant/too small a ****/whatever the ****, I DON'T GIVE A ****. OKAY YOU AREN'T COMPARABLE BYE. JUST ****ING BYE.

i MEAN GOD GUYS ****.. the same ****ing threads over and over again. just ****ing say bye


the problem, and i did the same thing when i got here.. see, you guys think that the reason you are here is to get laid. that's only half right.

once you actually get your **** wet, youw ill learn that, getting laid is not the primary objective.

getting laid, with as little stress and drama as possible, is the primary objective. thus, getting stressed out ***** does me no good.


I once had a girl get on the phone in the middle of a movie.. an opening day movie at that. i want to say it was casino royle. i didn't try to gam her talk her into getting off the phone, i threw 60 dollars on her lap and told the ***** to catch a cab home and went home.

i once went on a date to as pizza place in little rock called shotgun dans (damn that **** is on point i miss shotgun dans). girl kept telling me about how her ex said this and that.. 5 mintues into the date i told her gto get in the car and took her home and never called her again.

i went on a date with a girl once, evren got a BJ out of it on the way home, girl called me the next day asking for 5o dollars. never spoke to her again

****. the. drama. **** it. you guys got to get militant with that ****.
its not that i deal with feminists on a daily basis, its that all women have been affected by feminism. combine that with the fact that they are incapable of honesty, their standards are too high, and yet dont know what the fvck they want=total mindfvck.
i have to go through life with women avoiding me no matter how much i speak to them. they are terrified of me. im not a DJ. yes i can improve myself and step up the game and do the numbers thing....ive been gettin busy lately, i got 5 numbers this week. but like people say, that means nothing. im still dealing with a bunch of flakes with no morals or respect for anything. all the women that i deal with exhibit this same behavior. theres got to be plenty of women somewhere who dont behave this way, but where are they?
sounds like you hit the jackpot with your wife. i would be happy to find something like that but its a needle in a haystack. i feel that it really is that bad, maybe it is not to you though.
 

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omega05 said:
So you think the only way women will start seeing you as valuable is if there is an apocalyptic event that would make them need to rely on hunter/gatherers like yourself?
yes. otherwise in this society i have no value. im not just saying me, but a bunch of other men who have no value in this society. skill and intelligence is all i have of value. im not a DJ or a smooth talker. i have improved, but i have to accept who i am. that is the only conclusion i can come to.
 

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zekko said:
Yeah, but they're Betas, so that doesn't count. ;)

That was a joke, note the winky smily face. I know you don't always get my humor.
Haha. No way. What, have I freaked out at you before?


But I'm not sure if the OP is just talking about getting laid, maybe he's talking about the feminist agenda in general. If he's talking about putting things back to the way they were in the 50s or before, it probably would take some sort of apocolyptic event, or at least a very large economic disaster the likes of which we haven't seen yet.
Yeah, going back to that type of lifestyle would create an environment where women needed men. I don't know. I never really dreamed of a life where my woman was totally dependent on me. Just sounds like having a child.
 

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I agree with backbreaker . Just say no! lol Stop dealing with shyt you don't like, care for, or is damaging to your mental well being.

The world will constantly change, and there will always be people with it or against it. I bet the 5th guy who saw the invention of the first wheel protested and cried "what is this world coming to!"
 

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The only country which is leading a tangible backlash to this right now is Japan, through the Herbivore trend. I realise there is a thread on this. The Men's Movement doesn't really seem to have gained a great deal of momentum, and appears to be struggling, what is happening in Japan shows balls and a willingless to take action. Having legalised Prostitution and or increasing the demand for it would go along way as well. Again most men are shamed about using them, if people rebelled against this it would change that is for sure. Prostitution is definetly going to grow in the future it is a mater of time before that stigma is gone.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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two things must happen for men to be free

1. men were to insist on widespread, legal prostitution in all states

2. like the herbivore movement, men utterly reject all women on a day to day basis that do not show 100% respect 24/7....no sh!t tests never ever.....women are here to serve us...no equality....none of that nonsense.

these two things will destroy society as we know it so the elite will vigorously fight it.

But this will never happen.

Western man is arrogant and egotistical based on nothing....he is utterly hypnotized by advertising and is completely delusion.

western men are fools who believe that anyone but the elite are meant to have happiness through the prevailing system...they are not.

so western man will never be free because he foolishly believes women to be his allies when in fact 99.9% of women are his material enemies.
 

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Haha. No way. What, have I freaked out at you before?
Definitely not freaked out. But I was reading this old thread, which is currently on the front page, and you didn't get that I was joking in that one. But, sometimes I'm not as funny as I think I am.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=170429

Iceberg said:
Yeah, going back to that type of lifestyle would create an environment where women needed men. I don't know. I never really dreamed of a life where my woman was totally dependent on me. Just sounds like having a child.
Well, I certainly don't sit around pining for the old days. I've never been one to want to go backwards, even at my age. And I definitely don't want to go through the type of disaster that would have to occur to turn things around in regards to feminism.

I think we'd all agree the pendulum has swung too far in favor of women in the current culture (although I imagine they still consider themselves victims). Maybe over time that pendulum will start to swing back some, but I'm not going to hold my breath. I doubt that I will see anything like that in my lifetime.
 

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well i was supposed to meet up with this girl for coffee tonight. and of course she didnt even show. no call no text, nothing. ****in biatch
WHY THE HELL DO THEY DO THIS ****? what kind of ****ty person does that
 

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Burroughs said:
two things must happen for men to be free

1. men were to insist on wide spread prostitutes in all states
Fixed that for you.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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