"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What would it take for you to settle down with a chick?

captain55

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I can honestly say it would take a legit 9.... under 27.... with no mental issues for me to commit to a relationship. Once you understand the game, and realize that there are so many amazing women out there that can benefit your life, it makes it really hard to commit. I've given up on the idea of finding the perfect chick, I would rather date 3-4 women at a time and enjoy the positive qualities each one has to offer me. The hottest chick Im seeing right now, ass to die for and amazing features, just doesn't stimulate me emotionally. So I get it elsewhere.

In my experience, the moment you commit to a monogamous relationship you start getting more female attention than ever. You can go 6 months without banging anything better than a 7, suddenly snag an 8 that wants a relationship......think you hit the jackpot and two weeks later a 9 will start to take interest in you. It's always immediately after you commit to a relationship, like women just smell it off you because you dont give a ****.....Now your wishing you were single. I never get as much ***** thrown at me single as when Im in a relationship....but I dont like cheating either, I feel guilty and its too much work to cover the tracks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ohrein

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Nah, good women are rare. I've met only a handful in my life. Maybe 1 in 10 if I'm being generous is worth dating. Once you find a proper high quality woman you'll struggle to find one to replace her. Yeah, there's hotter girls but they're usually way lower quality.
 

captain55

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Nah, good women are rare. I've met only a handful in my life. Maybe 1 in 10 if I'm being generous is worth dating. Once you find a proper high quality woman you'll struggle to find one to replace her. Yeah, there's hotter girls but they're usually way lower quality.
Yeah but can you stay loyal to the good chick who isn't as hot? That's the question. Personally, I can't...I'd rather stay single.
 

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Yeah but can you stay loyal to the good chick who isn't as hot? That's the question. Personally, I can't...I'd rather stay single.
Yes. I'm not saying settle for a troll, but a 7-8 who's high quality is well worth it over the 9-10's who are ****s. Of course if you can find a high quality 9-10 and keep her, do that. Never met one of those, though. Every 9-10 I've met has been shallow and boring. Might be the circles I run in but it is what it is.
 

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I know this girl, early 20s, crazy hot, virgin, crazy smart. I don´t want to put her on a pedestal but she´s my unicorn. I´d marry her in a second. Went out a few times and then she started to ignore my texts, never found out why, no other guy in the picture as far as I can tell.

Had sex with a hot virgin last year. She hasen´t had sex with anyone else as far as I know. She´s not crazy smart like the other girl but she is a few years younger. Although I would prefer the 1st girl I mentioned on the account of her being super smart, I would marry this one too.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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