I just had an awkward situation, there was a girl I met at a houseparty over 2months ago who I went on a date with soon after, I afc'd on the date trying to set up a valentines date with her that week. I was in town walking down the road and I was walking towards her (I didn't realise it was her at the time, she was wearing sunglasses) only when I turned back and saw her princess long blonde hair down to her waist did I think it was her cos I couldn't remember what she looked like, likewise she prob didn't recognise me cos I was wearing sunglasses too. Anyway 'maybe' she recognised me from a distance but cos I didn't acknowledge her she didn't do the same. For some reason I hesitated as she walked away and I didn't say anything to the point where she was too far away that it would seem as if I was running to catch up behind her. Should I have done that regardless? I still wasn't 100 % sure it was her tho. Anyway I was walking around looking for a starbucks and about 5mins later she pops out as I was about to go
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
what would have u had done?
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