"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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what would gain more interest from an ex: good sex or no contact

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boynamedsue

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I posted something earlier that I'd been having sex with a girl I use to date but I'm concerned that she might be branch swinging as someone suggested. Do you think good sex raises interest level or no contact and vanishing for a while?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Good sex followed by no contact.

A winner in every man's league.
 
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dito iceberg pump and dump keep it moving she allready messed up with u
 
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It really depends on the quality of sex she can get elsewhere compared to you...

If you're BY FAR the best available **** to her - then yes fvcking her good and then NC her CAN work.... However, to fvck a chick then cut contact is a bit incongruent unless you really just want to pump and dump her.

If you're doing it to get her interest back - you better pray that the next man isn't in your league with his fvck game....
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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