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You know what, I feel kinda silly admitting this but it is after all a PUA (sort of) website, so I am just going to go ahead and say it. The OP is asking anyway about cold approaches and ya know what, with all the work I still need with my inner frame and all that, my cold approaches are pretty damn good.
The Scarf: AKA The Scarf of Iniquity or The Golden Fleece (as called by my friends)
I was doing this actually before I heard about peacocking but I think that is the general idea of whats going on here with the scarf. So you guessed it, I wear a scarf. I actually wear the damn thing a lot. I have a few. No nothing weird like a boa or some wack sh!t like that. Just a scarf.
I didn’t realize it when I started wearing it but
girls love the damn thing. Its uncanny. They always play with it, they always compliment it, I have used it in body language demonstrations,
some even take it off of me and put it on( always smells of my cologne more compliments). I even used it to lasso a girl once. She didn’t like that, but her friends did! A few girls have said it was the first thing they noticed about me and told me this and its almost a direct quote but from multiple girls…
”I saw you with this scarf on indoors and was like who is this guy with the scarf on? But wow, he kinda pulls it off.” Two other different girls asked me or mentioned “With your Burberry Scarf on blah blah blah.” Its old navy by the way. 8 bucks.
One girl did try and neg me on it. “Whats with the scarf are you cold” I just said ”No are you? You can wear it if you are.” (handing it to her)
She said” No thanks but you smell good what are you wearing." I told her the name of a popular perfume that all girls know of right now. She laughed. I actually kissed that girl later that night. No idea what her name is though.
It sounds so dumb in type actually
but the damn thing is a chick magnet. My friend after being out with me one night even stole the damn thing!
Negs work:
Opening with negs is dicey too, but they do work. Again, seems a bit underhanded and juvenile to me to type this but it is a reality.
Negs work. I would get better at cold approaches before you try this. I also would never use this on a girl in a day walking cold approach.
Quick story to illustrate the point.
There is a 8.5 that works at my gym. She also works out there. The other day I was watching her work out and the girl had my engines revving. Following day I saw her behind the counter…make up caked on. I thought to myself this girl looked so hot the other day, hair up, sweaty, yoga pants, baggy cut off gym shirt. Now, she looks so much LESS hot with the lipstick and cover up and eye shadow.
So…the next time I signed in at the gym she said "hello". And without missing a step in my walk I told her” Whats with all the make up today, your better looking than that.” She started following me as I am walking past the counter and into the locker room “ Wait, what, why, what do you mean?” I just glanced over my shoulder and smirked at her. She blushed. The next time I saw her… She had on 75 percent less make-up. Un-fukcing believable. There are 4500 members at my gym. In one passing comment I changed this girls whole outward persona.
And… I sh!t you not. This girl went from indifferent “hey how are yas” To blushing and fluttering her eyes at me every time I see her now. Trying to initiate conversation and following me with her eyes. I don’t think I can get her number though because I have gone to that well to many times lately and I am going to end up being “That guy” if I am not already.
Another one to boost your confidence a little:
I even once told a girl at the bar. “There is coffee and yaya dripping from the ceiling” Yep, no typos. That’s exactly what I said to her. I was telling my friend the same thing I am telling you guys here…
You can say anything you want and to prove it to him I told him before I approached that would be my
exact line to her.
Obviously he dared me to and I did it. Obviously as well, the chick thought I was out of my mind. She obviously asked me to repeat what I just said to her to I gave her the come hither to get closer so I could say it closer to her ear.
I repeated the jibberish and she made a face like I had puked on her shoes. Then she said “ What are you f^ckin wasted or something” So I made her get close again and said “ Nope, I just wanted to get a better smell of your perfume, its intoxicating and I smelled it when you walked in” ( By the way, total lie, they were there before me Im sure) She was like” Dude, you are a total creeper aren’t you. Freak.” So I said “Naw. Just like your perfume.” Then began to walk away.
She grabbed my arm and asked. “Wait. Where are you going. That’s it!” and I said “Yep.”
Truth be told the girl was a smoke show and I have to admit the creep/freak comment got me a little nervous so I kinda ejected in hopes she might come up to me later on. Didn’t happen.
So anyway, in closing OP.
Say whatever the hell comes to your mind. Even if you stammer and stutter at first you are still not out of it. Just tell her you are used to talking to men and you just switched sides. Or tell her you’re a virgin. Tell her you don’t know how to talk to woman yet because you were studding to be a priest. Dude, you can say anything at all!!! Just say it. If you bomb completely, its not you, its her. Ok. It might be you, so what.
Lastly, you still “notice” 6.5s?
Stop it. Talk to hotter girls than that man.
Shoot for the stars and you’ll at least hit the moon.
