"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What would be the pros and cons of dating women in their early 20's?

Ackles

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Anyone have any opinions or experiences in dating women in their early 20's? Good or bad? Just compiling a list of things here.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ColdCore

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In my experience,
cons: level of maturity, ability to face where they are and who they are in life, Very self centered.
Pros: High sex drive, love to have fun, open to trying different things.
 

Desdinova

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Pros:
- They're generally low-mileage
- Their high score list still has room for someone to climb to the top
- They're attractive
- Not Jaded
- Many are child-free

Cons:
- They may be in the middle of their "party phase"

cons: level of maturity, ability to face where they are and who they are in life, Very self centered.
A woman's maturity generally hits it's top end in their mid-20s. If they're a bit immature, they'll grow out of it. As for women being able to face where they are and who they are in life, I have yet to see that happen with ANY woman. Self-centered women come in many ages and sizes.
 

Slickster

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Pros - You can influence/mould them into who you want them to become.
Cons - They are fickle.
 

grayclif

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All depends on how old you are. How old are you?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Colossus

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If you are in your early 30's or above I think it is a complete waste of your time, for all the reasons above.

Exceptions to every rule, of course, but exceptions themselves never make a rule.
 

Bible_Belt

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I like chunky chicks, but only if they are young, when it's all a nice, firm fat. After 30, the firmness disappears, and fat girls feel flabby and gross.
 
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