"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What would be a creative answer to this question?

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You ask a girl why is a girl like her single?
And she gives you an answer and then usually says "why do you ask?"

Whats the correct reply? I would usually say just curious, but maybe there is a better answer out there???
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Honestly, I think its kind of a weak question. I think its tough to answer it without a shower of compliments. It also insinuates you want to make her your girlfriend, which is ok if that's your objective. Personally I'd open with something else, or reply with "cause I want to make you my girlfriend", if thats your ultimate plan.
 
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Geh. I thought I had something good to say, but I'll just go with don't say that. The make you my girlfriend line is crap (cmon man).
 
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i wouldn't have asked a question like that... a girl will let you know if she's single or if u have a shot by her actions...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well it wouldt be my opener, Ive known this girl for two years and she ended her long term relationship two years ago. But for the past 2 years she been single.
She is really attractive
 
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Just be like, "just wondering" pause for a few seconds and be like "That's kinda rude", she'll be like "what, how?" then say "you didn't ask why I was single". If she's like "I don't care" then she has no sense of humor and she's not worth it anyway. If she laughs, smiles or continues the conversation then you got some interest there.
 
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The real question here, is why a girl would say "why do you ask?" I think its cuz she wants you to make a move. You'd have to judge her tone though. If she's not interested, she'll most likely want to change the subject asap.

I would say "just wondering if someones gonna try to kick my ass after we makeout."

Or simply "Why do you think?"
 
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