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I was on a date with this girl that I recently met. We were sitting on a little ledge at the beach around sunset and she told me to go down and write something in the sand

what should I have done/wrote??

This happened 2 days ago and I am still looking back on it wondering what I could have wrote and nothing good comes to mind
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Tell HER to write something in the sand FIRST. Then play it by ear.

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Yeah thats what I did but she didnt want to, she gave me some stupid excuse and then that was the end of that subject
 

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what should I have done/wrote??
I would have written "I am writing in sand". she would have laughed at the stupidity and playfullness of your writing. Then i would have said your turn. Whatever she wrote after that, i would have gone from there as alias guy put it.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

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Id've kissed her. Shuts her up telling me to do pointless tasks.....
 

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jesus, you guys are WAY over analyzing.

dude, it's ok, you can write something in the sand.

write anything, who fckin cares.
 

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aliasguy said:
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Tell HER to write something in the sand FIRST. Then play it by ear.

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That's what I was thinking exactly!!!
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I'd've written "BBQ SAUCE".
No, there is no logic behind that. Then again, there is no logic in asking to do that so yeah.
 

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