skinny2ripped said:
okay. so I randomly saw this girl i went to high school with a couple weeks ago in a parking lot. Im 21 shes 19. we talked there for about 2 hrs and ended up hooking up. Since then, we've been talking through text and calls. Also we hung out 2 more times. last time i saw her was 2 weeks ago. after that i tried to hang out with her and she always had and excuse then she told me she just wanted to just be friends so i told her i was all set.
Looks like this girl has gone "AW" (attention wh0re) on you. If you two started out as dating or potientially dating,then all of the sudden this happens,then she's either met another guy she's more into,or YOU slipped up somewhere in your interactions with her.
If a girl is an AW with you,then that means that
somewhere along the way,you slipped up and
unintentionally started boosting her ego.
Maybe you complimented her wrong,allowed her to walk over you,or something else,but somewhere in dealing with her,you put her on a pedistal unknowingly.
skinny2ripped said:
4 days went by and she sends me a txt saying
"your great".
i say "is that why u keep thinking about me?"
she says "yea it sucks"
She's was trying to get something out of you,probably just another ego boost/attention.
skinny2ripped said:
after that i just ignore her and yesterday she sends me another txt saying she misses me? i said ok and she said i didnt have to miss her.
Yeah,she was after something. She said that she missed you,then turn around and told you that you didn't have to miss her,lol.
So in other words,she was EXPECTING you to say you missed her as well.
Good thing you didn't. It's easy to tell that this is her ego trying to get pumped up by you because if she
truely missed you like she said she does,then she would have suggested for you two to get together sometime,or she would have taken you up on your previous offers to spend time together.
She didn't miss you,she missed your
attention.
skinny2ripped said:
what the hell is this chick doing?
She's just trying to get you to desire her. She just wants to
feel wanted by a man. If you had told her that you missed her when she told you that she missed you,she would have gotten her emotional "fix" right then and there,and you probably wouldn't have heard from her for another 2 weeks.
skinny2ripped said:
i feel like when i try to hang out with her she always busy but then when i stop trying she sends me all these txt ? then when i try again shes gone? lol
Yeah,this is pretty stand AW behavior.
It's not a big deal though,it can be turned around. You just need to STOP interacting with her in ways that feed her ego,and behave in ways that generate attraction in her.
The next time she calls you or texts you trying to get some type of attention out of you that makes her thinks she's "all that",behave like a MAN who's SEXUALLY ATTRACTED to a woman.
If she calls you telling you she misses you,ask her what color her bra is.
She'll be SHOCKED and a bit turned on at the same time. Let the convo got back to normal for a while,then the next time you "sense" her fishing for attention again,TELL her the next time you take her out that you two are going to go play a game of pool because you want to see how she handles a "stick".
You see what's going on here? EVERYTIME she comes seeking attention from you,you hit her with something SEXUAL. This way you can show your sexual interest in her WITHOUT boosting her ego.
Her ego gets nothing out of it because you're not expressing anything
emotional as far as having feelings for
her specifically,you're expressing sexual desire,which can be expressed for ANY WOMAN,not just
her.
You do that,and she'll link sexual attraction to you because EVERYTIME she comes to you seeking attention,you go sexual on her.
