"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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elmnick

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I've recnetly discovered internet communities like this and have seen that their seem to be a lot of people trying to sell stuff to you/ take advantage of you. I like to think I'm not too gullible and haven't spent any money yet, I was just wondering what people who have spent money have thought.
From my perspectivem,without having bought any of the ebooks or whatever it seems lke there are a few types; psychobabble like nuero-linguistic-programming which I instinctively think must be bollocks, products which promise that after giving away your money you will have the knowledge to instantly bed every woman you see, and what could be desciribed as AFC advice which tells you merely to be youself/be confidant.
So far I am in the process of reading whatever free stuff I can get my hands on like stuff from the DJ bible (Book of Pook, Introduction by KillaPeteHog, Weapons of Mass Seduction, Book of SHuma Gora) as well as other stuff I found for free, like Model Magnet (which I haven't read yet) and some other stuff by Rion Williams.
I guess my questions are:
Has anyone honestly had significant success as a direct result of reading the DJ bible and/or other stuff on the internet?
Do other systems, like Double Your Dating etc contain anything worth knowing that is not in the DJ bible or are they just a way to part fools with money?
What free information would you recommend for a recovering (hopefully) BAFC?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I was able to get David DeAngelo material for free. You get it the same way you'd be getting pirated stuff over the internet.


Gunwitch guide is free and works. David DeAngelo (DD) material is amazing. DJ Bible is free and is great.


But hey. All these are theories to change the way you think, in fact, none will teach you how to interact with women. All the material that is free or paid, is there to allow you to improve yourself, i.e. get a new skill. So when you approach a reading, remember that it is just a reading, to make something out of it you must practice. I'm even gonna go as far as to say that to make change you must rewire your brain, material is a guide which you use to practice.

PUA ways are not just about women, it is a way to every day happiness, to all your interactions. Thus when you spend money (I haven't thus far), you are investing in not how to get pvssy, but in your own growth.



You will undergo a trasformation. From an AFC, to a DJ. Along the way you will become more and more aware. Your truths and reality will change many times. When you get it, it will not be a single way of doing things, it will be the whole you. When you interact in life it won't be a technique, it will be you. In way, just like you feel compfortable being an AFC, you will be compfortable being a DJ.
 

rakishness

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Being at the right place at the right time( and taking advantage of it).


LUCK, TIMING, and CIRCUMSTANCE.

Won't find that in the DJ bible.
 
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