I just wanna share some tips for those of you guys that go to the dance clubs.
1. Its best to have a male friend moving around on the dance floor with you. That way you can be talking/dancing and drinking you beer or long island.
2. Find 2 girls that are dancing together and watch them for a little bit but don't let them see you are watching them yet. Use this time to see what happends when other guys try to dance with them. Most of the time if one guy tries to dance with one of the girls her friend will just pull her away most of the time cuz she doesn't want to be dancing by herself, not becuase the guys is ugly. BUT if they keep rejecting guys, they are probably not interested in any guys at all and are just there for show. So move on.
3. Once the 2 girls have been located on the dance floor, casually walk by with your friend, talking, smiling, pass the girls smile at them and turn around and start dancing next to them. This works in my case about 60% of the time. As if they really caught your attention. NOW the key is to move in and dance with them in about 10 seconds, the 3 second rule is way too fast and most girls need about 10 seconds to look you over establish eye contact. Move in slow. I see so many guys ruin the approach by starting to hump the girl as soon as they get next to her. Spend some time just dancing with her, about one minute is good, start face to face and smile the whole time, don't talk, she can't hear you anyways, don't ask her name, who cares right now, just keep smiling not too much though, and keep looking in her eyes as you get closer and closer, that is the key.
Your friend is hopefully dancing with her friend at this time.
1. Its best to have a male friend moving around on the dance floor with you. That way you can be talking/dancing and drinking you beer or long island.
2. Find 2 girls that are dancing together and watch them for a little bit but don't let them see you are watching them yet. Use this time to see what happends when other guys try to dance with them. Most of the time if one guy tries to dance with one of the girls her friend will just pull her away most of the time cuz she doesn't want to be dancing by herself, not becuase the guys is ugly. BUT if they keep rejecting guys, they are probably not interested in any guys at all and are just there for show. So move on.
3. Once the 2 girls have been located on the dance floor, casually walk by with your friend, talking, smiling, pass the girls smile at them and turn around and start dancing next to them. This works in my case about 60% of the time. As if they really caught your attention. NOW the key is to move in and dance with them in about 10 seconds, the 3 second rule is way too fast and most girls need about 10 seconds to look you over establish eye contact. Move in slow. I see so many guys ruin the approach by starting to hump the girl as soon as they get next to her. Spend some time just dancing with her, about one minute is good, start face to face and smile the whole time, don't talk, she can't hear you anyways, don't ask her name, who cares right now, just keep smiling not too much though, and keep looking in her eyes as you get closer and closer, that is the key.
Your friend is hopefully dancing with her friend at this time.
