What women wear and what they mean.

[AAAgent]

I learned this all the other night from my dj guru friend.

When women constantly wear many pairs of nice shoes, it means they are trying to accentuate their legs.
Instead of complimenting on their shoes, say something like "Out of all the women i've seen here, you have the most beautiful legs."

When she is wearing tight clothes tell her she has a great body.

If she is one of those make-up crazy girls, she is trying to emphasize her face, so let her know she is beautiful.

If she is the type to not really show off anything but carry's a strong personality, independence, i don't need a man type of personality, then let her know she is sexy.

Last but not least the girl that just doesn't seem special in anyway, just say they have a great personality, one that feels easy to connect with and is eccentric.



some of this stuff is common sense, but i never really knew that shoes were meant to emphasize the legs, i thought it may have been the feet or just to show off nice shoes.

 

[saturos]

I learned this all the other night from my dj guru friend.

When women constantly wear many pairs of nice shoes, it means they are trying to accentuate their legs.
Instead of complimenting on their shoes, say something like "Out of all the women i've seen here, you have the most beautiful legs."

When she is wearing tight clothes tell her she has a great body.

If she is one of those make-up crazy girls, she is trying to emphasize her face, so let her know she is beautiful.

If she is the type to not really show off anything but carry's a strong personality, independence, i don't need a man type of personality, then let her know she is sexy.

Last but not least the girl that just doesn't seem special in anyway, just say they have a great personality, one that feels easy to connect with and is eccentric.



some of this stuff is common sense, but i never really knew that shoes were meant to emphasize the legs, i thought it may have been the feet or just to show off nice shoes.

Uh i'm pretty sure girls have lots of shoes because they love clothes and their outfits: shoes are an essential part of any outfit and thus a girl wants tons of different pairs of shoes to match.

And none of your post is necessarily true: Perhaps the girl wears lots of makeup because she is insecure. Perhaps she wears tight shirts because she is just a slutty bltch. If she doesn't show off anything, maybe she is just a boring person.

 

[Alle_Gory]

If she doesn't show off anything, maybe she is just a boring person.

Or maybe she's having a busy/bad week and wants to blend in.

 

[AAAgent]

i forgot to mention there should be consistency with these things. constantly wearing tight clothes, always having a different pair of unique shoes, etc.

 

[Duffdog]

"letting her know she is beautiful" is exactly the opposite of what a DJ should do. After all, A DJ should be surrounded by beautiful girls all the time and wouldn't notice that one of them is hot because they all are. Thus, you treat the beautiful girl as average in your world because you are the prize.

Women wear things because someone told them it was attractive. They have no truly autonomous decision in that regard unless they manufacture their own clothes.

 

[Duffdog]

Im sorry to bring rain on your parade but that is a terrible statement. You should tell a woman she is beautiful. If you are don't go up to her like a stuttering idiot. Be cool and confident when you say it. Thats what wears off on a girl. Not a statement. If it turns a girl off of you just because you called her beautiful, that is one superficial *****.

In what way is it terrible? All chumps tell hot girls that they are beautiful all the time...only the cool guys are the ones who don't. Also, the hottest girls are the most superficial--thats why you noticed them. They already knew that they are beautiful way before you said it and don't want some average guy telling them what they already know. The only girls who aren't superficial are the ones you didn't notice because they weren't beautiful.

That is the whole point of neg hits-- you find fault with beautiful girls in order to be different from all the chumps who simply looked at her and stated the obvious.

It would have been better if the original poster titled his post: "how to be a chump and never get laid"

 

[IPalindromeI]

The way women are, there is a 9 out of 10 chance that when you see a woman dressed to kill, it is to kill the competition - not impress you.

Women compete viciously with each other, each trying to outdo the others with the skinniest jeans, or the highest priced name brand heels (seriously - has any man ever wanted to f*ck a woman because of the brand of shoe she was wearing, ie: those 'seriously killer Louboutins or Choos'?), or the best mascara, etc. Makeup is warpaint, plain and simple. Cosmo and Glamour are the battle plans. Who can be skinniest? Who can be best made up? Who can give the best BJ? Competition with other females.

If you really want to compliment a woman who is clearly making an effort, then make a mild mention about how much better she looks than other woman who happen to be there. That will get her attention much, much more than 'hey, you have nice legs'.

She wants to be recognized as the winning female. Find a way to acknowledge it while maintaining your own edge and you have a better shot.

Want to test it out? Next time you are talking to a woman, compare her mildly unfavorably to another female in the area and watch what happens. If she cuts down the woman instead of you for noticing, then you know the deal: she doesn't want to catch men, so much as she wants to catch them at someone else's expense.

 

[AAAgent]

The female usually knows she's hot, but the amount of men who approach her and confront her about her appearance are slim.

The reason why female dress up or try to flaunt what they have is to 1.) look good/show off and 2.) scare away all the afc's that are too scared to approach them because they feel the woman is too great a catch for them. For a male to directly approach a female about what they consider their strongest strength and call them out on it, shows dominance of the male.

I forgot to mention my friend observes these women and usually he finds patterns in his returning customers to his store. He usually doesn't make this assumption out of the blue. They consistently show flashy shoes, low cut shirts, permed hair/flashy make -up, etc.

He finds these patterns and their strengths and breaks them down slowly.

 

[Dedication]

I learned this all the other night from my dj guru friend.

When women constantly wear many pairs of nice shoes, it means they are trying to accentuate their legs.
Instead of complimenting on their shoes, say something like "Out of all the women i've seen here, you have the most beautiful legs."

When she is wearing tight clothes tell her she has a great body.

If she is one of those make-up crazy girls, she is trying to emphasize her face, so let her know she is beautiful.

If she is the type to not really show off anything but carry's a strong personality, independence, i don't need a man type of personality, then let her know she is sexy.

Last but not least the girl that just doesn't seem special in anyway, just say they have a great personality, one that feels easy to connect with and is eccentric.



some of this stuff is common sense, but i never really knew that shoes were meant to emphasize the legs, i thought it may have been the feet or just to show off nice shoes.

Thanks for the information man! I will keep an eye open because i really like this idea *Rep up*

 

[AAAgent]

This works best if you see the women on a regular basis, such as work/school/bars/etc. If you go making the assumption out of the blue and she's only dressed that way for a certain occasion then your SOL.

 

[Duffdog]

Luke...

Those superficial 9's and 10's you speak of are not beautiful

This is where you and I differ. I only like the type of girls that many consider superficial. If you are saying they are not beautiful, then that's your choice I guess. I will always go for the bleach blonde with implants and a BMW over pretty much any other type. Im not really interested in getting with a girl that doesn't make every other girl jealous.

In that case, if you want females out of the spotlight, it may actually be better to compliment them all the time.

 

[Vypros]

I have to laugh at this. You must be new to this. You have come in overwhelmed by the philosophy sosuave brings. Your mind has become so entrenched in it. You don't understand. Neg hits and all that work great. If a girl came up to me and ONLY gave me neg hits and never positive feed back, it would not make me think twice at all. I would just think she is a *****. You need to give her some positive feedback to show the interest is there. Those superficial 9's and 10's you speak of are not beautiful. They just drowned themselves with products that they think will make them beautiful. AFC's do give those compliments. Alpha's give those compliments. You brainwashed ones at sosuave don't. You know why you don't? It is against the sosuave way. OH NO! AFC'S DO IT! Do you know why this complimenting thing won't work for an AFC? It's because he showers her with compliments. They don't just drop one. They give 5 within an hour. Learn to use them in moderation and with confidence. They will not ruin your game.

I think the point is that every tom, **** and harry says "You are beautiful."

A compliment like that is going to fall flat and be boring to her. She's already had 8 guys tell her that this evening.

When you give her a compliment, make sure it's genuine and not some broadstroke compliment that half the guys in the room have just given her.

"You are beautiful" = tired, boring, blah

"Your eyes dance when you laugh." = maybe cheesy, but at least it is different.

Set yourself apart from the crowd. It's easy to just be like "Wow, you sure are pretty." It's hard to notice something specifically beautiful about her and give it to her when:

1. She least expects it
2. She earns it