What Women Want!!??

[Brooksy]

This is obviously the question to which we all wish we new the anwser. Well sadly im not here to reveal it, however i am going to give a bit of advice that should be helpful to some.....

For this is the question we all need to ask ourselves from time to time on our quest to be successful with the female kind!

Put yourself in a womans shoes for a moment and then imagine you were looking for your 'ideal man', how would he behave? what makes him attractive? what traits would he posess?......

Smart
Funny
Good Looks
ambitious
confident
These are just a few of many!!

Try it, Put ureself inside a womans mind ( not body!! doh) then brainstorm what you would want in a your 'ideal man'. This exercise helped me to see where i had possibly gone wrong with women in the past.

What would you want your 'man' to be like? By thinking about this question, you can come up with a lot of interesting ideas and thoughts on how to improve yourselves.

Once you have done a quick brainstorm, you can then go through and see what traits or characteristics you are missing. then you can set about devloping them in order to become your 'ideal man'! lol

you can also do this exercise to come up with thoughts on ' what makes men unattractive....?'

By thinking in a womens perspective it helps you to look at things differently......... ( which is all ways good!!)

 

[Brooksy]

Ive no doubt that this has been discussed before lol. The reason for me bringing it up, is that if people thought about this a bit more then many would answer their own questions....

 

[Lifeforce]

Welcome to the Don Juan Boards!

One of the best improvements I ever did was when I started plucking mushrooms in the forest. Another one was when I dicided to grow things in my garden. I find this to be a very relaxing addition to my life. And I bet those two interrests haven't got me a single girl.

The moral is that improvements are meant to focus on your desires and what you want to do. It doesn't matter if it makes you more attractive or not. When you improve yourself to get girls you become the servant to the woman. When you improve yourself with the purpose of "you" in mind, you become the gardener of your own heart and soul.

Forget all about women. Close your eyes. Look at the ideal man you want to be. Improve yourself to met that ideal, not the womans ideal man. If you want to get quality women then you have to be true to yourself. The woman may not like it but then she is not worth having. If you get more women then that doesn't mean that you are more successful than someone who doesn't get as many.

I know people who have been with countless of women and never found a single one that fit their own image of an ideal woman. This is because they change to fit what the average woman want. If they instead had improved themselves to become their own ideal and focus on themselves, less women would be interrested. But the fewer number will be outweighed of the quality of these women.

This is not a bad tip, it is the mentality behind it that is bad.

Lifeforce

 

[Brooksy]

Life Force whats wrong with wanting to be more attractive to the opposite sex?

Its self improvement, just with a different intent. You are still focusing on yourself.

 

[Lifeforce]

Life Force whats wrong with wanting to be more attractive to the opposite sex?

Nothing at all. Don't get me wrong. It is wrong when you look at what women wants and adapt yourself to that. Also it is wrong when you base improvement upon the ability to get chick. Many other important things will be forgotten. I protest only because I used to think the way you describe in your post. "What do women want?" Then I based all improvements in my life upon that. I forgot what I wanted. I became a slave and thought I was in control.

In my opinion the easiest way to get a girl is to ignore every thought that has to do with women. Either they like you or they don't. If they do then it is great if they don't then that's their problem. More will come when you improve your life, if you feel better about your life many more will flock to you to be with someone who knows how to be happy. You will feel the right words to say and feel the right thing to do. But maybe that's just my ideal way of dealing with women.

Its self improvement, just with a different intent. You are still focusing on yourself.

In the end you are not. You are focusing on pleasing a woman. Improvement must reach further down in your soul otherwise it will just be a face-lift on your old self.

If you have a tree, the trunk of it will say "life". Then there will be several branches of your life, each very important. One of these will be "women" but there will be many more. If you focus improvement on what a girl want then you have cut of that branch and made that limp part of yourself into your life. If you focus on "Life" then you see through a wider perspective. Improving every part of your life. What you focus on you will get.

Lifeforce

 

[JSH]

Although if what you want is to get that chick, then maybe, you are still following your dreams and actively pursuing them. But i kinda agree, you should be who you want to be, not who anyone else is.

And welcome

 

[Brooksy]

Yeah i agree, its all about getting the right balance...