"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I've recently given this subject a lot of thought. I've also done some self examination about why I was attracted more to certain women than others. I've come up with a few observations:

1) A women will always be more ATTRACTED to a guy who likes himself more than he likes her.

2) It's hard for a man or woman to have ROMANTIC feelings for someone if they're not physically attracted to that person.

3) I'm personally more emotionally attracted to women who I can't control.

4) If you let a woman LEAD the relationship, it will never work.

5) You can show kindness with women, but never WEAKNESS.

6) All women are basically programmed the same and will respond to the same psychological stimuli.

7) Never apologize to a woman

8) Women will always have more choices than you, therefore, it will always be easier for them to leave you.

9) Modern women, especially modern Western women, are totally different creatures than the women who preceded them and require a whole new set of rules to game.

10) Foreign women may be your best shot at a long term relationship
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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justiceseeker said:
I've recently given this subject a lot of thought. I've also done some self examination about why I was attracted more to certain women than others. I've come up with a few observations:

1) A women will always be more ATTRACTED to a guy who likes himself more than he likes her.

2) It's hard for a man or woman to have ROMANTIC feelings for someone if they're not physically attracted to that person.

This can be false believe it or not.

3) I'm personally more emotionally attracted to women who I can't control.

why?

4) If you let a woman LEAD the relationship, it will never work.

True

5) You can show kindness with women, but never WEAKNESS.

6) All women are basically programmed the same and will respond to the same psychological stimuli.

I would say this can depend. What exactly do you mean?

7) Never apologize to a woman

Unless, you did something out of line.

8) Women will always have more choices than you, therefore, it will always be easier for them to leave you.

If your game is good enough. She will only want you.

9) Modern women, especially modern Western women, are totally different creatures than the women who preceded them and require a whole new set of rules to game.

10) Foreign women may be your best shot at a long term relationship
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American Women are slvuts. Feminism fcked it all up. I have read about what it was like before that,no foolin me.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
1) A women will always be more ATTRACTED to a guy who likes himself more than he likes her.

2) It's hard for a man or woman to have ROMANTIC feelings for someone if they're not physically attracted to that person.

This can be false believe it or not.

3) I'm personally more emotionally attracted to women who I can't control.

why?
4) If you let a woman LEAD the relationship, it will never work.

True

5) You can show kindness with women, but never WEAKNESS.

6) All women are basically programmed the same and will respond to the same psychological stimuli.

I would say this can depend. What exactly do you mean?

7) Never apologize to a woman

Unless, you did something out of line.

8) Women will always have more choices than you, therefore, it will always be easier for them to leave you.

If your game is good enough. She will only want you.

9) Modern women, especially modern Western women, are totally different creatures than the women who preceded them and require a whole new set of rules to game.

10) Foreign women may be your best shot at a long term relationship

2) I'm sure it's possible to have romantic feelings without physical attraction, but if you ask me, the two definitely go together. Think about it, when you're pining away for some chick, I'm sure she doesn't look like Rosanne barr

3) I don't know. I've analyzed why I was into certain chicks more than others and the only common denomator I could come up with is that I was always worried they'd leave me. This is something I don't like and need to change within myself.

6) All women are basically programmed the same. Meaning, if you care less than them, and can convey this to them through your game, they will most likely be more attracted to you. Women are a lot like spoiled children. They respond to strength and firmness rather than softness and niceness.

7) This one I stand firm on. Nothing good or constructive can come from apologizing to a female. If you fvcked up, ok, but saying you're sorry isn't going to make a damn bit of difference to her. She'll store it away in the back of her mind that you can be weak, and use it against you.
8) I agree that having good game is paramount in keeping a woman, but let's face it fellas, women will always have an easier time getting sex and finding mates. If they're at all attractive, they'll have many more options than you'll ever have. I'm not saying you can't keep an attractive women, but because they always have more choices, they always have the advantage.
 

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I agree with your conclusions. They are pretty much the same conclusions I've came to over time. I never show a woman too much interest and I just lead her where want her to go.
 
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justiceseeker said:
1) 6) All women are basically programmed the same. Meaning, if you care less than them, and can convey this to them through your game, they will most likely be more attracted to you. Women are a lot like spoiled children. They respond to strength and firmness rather than softness and niceness.
So true.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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