"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What women want in the simplest form

doubletwice

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My 6 year old niece were at my place and this conversation took form:

"Do you have a boyfriend?"
" Yes and no "
" What do you mean? "
" There's this boy who asked me to be his girlfriend, but I didn't want to"
" Why not?"
" He's not my type, he jumps in front of me and trying to kiss me "
" How do you want your boyfriend to be towards you? "
" Mean and kind, but not romantic because I hate that..he also needs to have some exe's "
" Why ? "
" So he learned how to behave "
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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SpartanWarrior77

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Holy CRAP! She said this!? This is why being too direct doesn't work unless you're a str8 up Chad in which case you can break almost all of the rules and still get laid. Women learn and appreciate nuance from men from an early age. Most guys are socially retarded to such a degree that it's actually kind of sad. The top seducers truly understand and appreciate nuance. This is something my slow learning azz is only starting to comprehend now after almost a decade of game.
 

SpartanWarrior77

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Also push and pull / kind but firm , preselection etc
Yes, these are good tools too but the problem is that guys still don't get how to use them. They see them in an almost autistic way. They think social proof, hot/cold in a very primitive manner. This makes them better but still pretty low level seducers. You need to amp the anty in a global sexual market place bc women have much more options...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bigpapa

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My 6 year old niece were at my place and this conversation took form:

"Do you have a boyfriend?"
" Yes and no "
" What do you mean? "
" There's this boy who asked me to be his girlfriend, but I didn't want to"
" Why not?"
" He's not my type, he jumps in front of me and trying to kiss me "
" How do you want your boyfriend to be towards you? "
" Mean and kind, but not romantic because I hate that..he also needs to have some exe's "
" Why ? "
" So he learned how to behave "
women Are sincere when they are young or old . In between it is a lot of bullsh1t :)
 
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