"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What women want - From a real woman!

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Yup that is what us women want ......... attention!

Maybe I will put up a topless pic the next time I want it hahhaha - Oh and you may all scoff but all you men are the same, you are all clueless and THAT is why you get P***y whipped! :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Lishy said:
Yup that is what us women want ......... attention!

Maybe I will put up a topless pic the next time I want it hahhaha - Oh and you may all scoff but all you men are the same, you are all clueless! :)
Let me see it before I scoff.
 

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All humans have intelligence, some more than others. Doesn't mean they are immune to their natural impulses.
What? No free will?
 

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Why has this thread got 2 pages?, thought it was common knowledge women don't know what they want.

Guess it was'nt to everyone then ;)
 

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Having your free will override years of evolutional reaction/instinct/whatever is quite the challenging thing to do.

It's why many people live lives based on instant gratification or fear, and not from the "bigger picture".

But it's what's sort of advocated here. As a man not letting your desire for sex completely override your abilitiy to screen women who are not good for you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Having your free will override years of evolutional reaction/instinct/whatever is quite the challenging thing to do.

It's why many people live lives based on instant gratification or fear, and not from the "bigger picture".

But it's what's sort of advocated here. As a man not letting your desire for sex completely override your abilitiy to screen women who are not good for you.
Totally agree.

And Lishy, they're not ALL the same. Many are as you describe, yes but let's be fair not all of them. Some are much harder to train than others.
 

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I kinda figured that out a long time ago. Some will grab my ass and insist upon having erudite conversations w/me. Some just wanna small talk, while others wanna skip the talk and go for it. It's just a matter of how I want these things to play out.
 

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I kinda figured that out a long time ago. Some will grab my ass and insist upon having erudite conversations w/me. Some just wanna small talk, while others wanna skip the talk and go for it. It's just a matter of how I want these things to play out.
Of course, it's completely up to you. She'd have no say in how it plays out I'm sure.
 

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Of course, it's completely up to you. She'd have no say in how it plays out I'm sure.
Why are you here? Nobody cares what you have to say.
 

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Lishy said:
Yup that is what us women want ......... attention!

Maybe I will put up a topless pic the next time I want it hahhaha - Oh and you may all scoff but all you men are the same, you are all clueless and THAT is why you get P***y whipped! :)
This person Lishy is a venerial disease which we caught by sticking SoSuave's d1ck into LoveShack's sopping pvss. But at least a few were saved.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MCristo said:
Why are you here? Nobody cares what you have to say.
Of course you care. You're reading my posts aren't you?:crackup:

Suck it up dude and take it like a MAN...you are one aren't you?
 

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What's with the hating?

Ladies, I give you all a beautiful flower.

:flowers:
 

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This person Lishy is a venerial disease which we caught by sticking SoSuave's d1ck into LoveShack's sopping pvss. But at least a few were saved.
What are you 14? Wow. And you guys are funny. You saved no one. They're all laughing at you over there.

Speaking of which...can someone direct me to this famous "bible" and Matrix stuff?
 

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What's with the hating?

Ladies, I give you all a beautiful flower.

:flowers:
No hating here, dude. Just remember bros before hos.
 

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Lads, stop with the bull. Burning my eyes. And woman, you may come on here saying your pretty etc, but most, if not all of us, can find some woman that actually respects and values us, after all, your being an attention wh0re on here..it's pathetic.
Now, go do something worthwhile, like your nails or whatever you brainless fools do while not thinking about shopping or wh0ring attention.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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SilverSonnet said:
Lads, stop with the bull. Burning my eyes. And woman, you may come on here saying your pretty etc, but most, if not all of us, can find some woman that actually respects and values us, after all, your being an attention wh0re on here..it's pathetic.
Now, go do something worthwhile, like your nails or whatever you brainless fools do while not thinking about shopping or wh0ring attention.
Wow, you're only 14? Your mother should wash your mouth out with soap little boy. Now run along now.
 

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What are you 14? Wow. And you guys are funny. You saved no one. They're all laughing at you over there.

Speaking of which...can someone direct me to this famous "bible" and Matrix stuff?
At the bottom of the front page there is a link to the DJ bible. The matrix is just a common term we use of getting sucked into the mold society creates for everyone. In a general sense, it means that in order to get with women, you need to give gifts, supplicate, prove yourself. Which doesn't seem to work in the real world. In a broader sense, it means anyone just sort of playing the role they think they are supposed to play out, from the messages they get from the media, etc.

So when we say a guy is breaking out of the matrix, we're saying he's learning to make his own decisions, based on his own thoughts/beliefs. Learning to think for himself, and not necessarily doing what others are doing in order to "fit in".

Rollo covers it pretty well I think in the loveshack posts he's made.


As far as everyone laughing, I'm not going to quote anyone by name but there is a girl over there, her icon is from an action movie with a female lead. She seems to have a pretty good understanding of what this site is about (good AND bad).
 

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Women want what can't get. They want a man that doesn't care as much as they do.
 

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At the bottom of the front page there is a link to the DJ bible. The matrix is just a common term we use of getting sucked into the mold society creates for everyone. In a general sense, it means that in order to get with women, you need to give gifts, supplicate, prove yourself. Which doesn't seem to work in the real world. In a broader sense, it means anyone just sort of playing the role they think they are supposed to play out, from the messages they get from the media, etc.

So when we say a guy is breaking out of the matrix, we're saying he's learning to make his own decisions, based on his own thoughts/beliefs. Learning to think for himself, and not necessarily doing what others are doing in order to "fit in".

Rollo covers it pretty well I think in the loveshack posts he's made.


As far as everyone laughing, I'm not going to quote anyone by name but there is a girl over there, her icon is from an action movie with a female lead. She seems to have a pretty good understanding of what this site is about (good AND bad).
Ok, the Matrix thing sounds reasonable but so far the DJ articles are lame. And some are worse than lame they're actually counter-productive.

Don't know what member you're speaking of.
 

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Women want what can't get. They want a man that doesn't care as much as they do.
That's true of some, not all. Generally the under 30 set. Men are the same way too. No difference.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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