"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What women want - From a real woman!

Lishy

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Hi

I thought I would let you guys into a little known secret but you must promise not to tell a soul ok?

I am going to tell you what women want!

Oh yes

Ok let me keep my voice down and you must promise not to tell ........

the truth is that women want .........

















We don't know what the feck we want!!!

Keep trying boys, you will keep getting it wrong but keep trying!:up:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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And loads of chocolate. When there is chocolate, there is no time for being a pain in our partners behind :p
 

Omen

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SilverSonnet said:
Props to the OP for telling us what we already knew.
:crackup: And this comes from a supposed 14yr old, and HE EVEN KNEW THIS ALREADY.

So yeah, to the OP :yawn:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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trying to figure out what women want is like trying to figure out a number that's always changing.
 

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Actually, without saying it, this broad gives a true insight into what women want: male attention.

My translation of this post:

"Hey guys! Guess whaa-at? I have a pvssy!!!! Yes thats right. Which means I might be able to tell you what other people with pvssies tend to want.... Oops, I don't have anything to say. Ha ha."

She got what she wanted with this post: male attention.
 

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Like I've been trying to tell you guys... women under the age of 26 don't know what the f>ck they want. When their breasts start sagging and they start looking old and can't control that fact, they start getting scared and wanting a family... but even then, they still don't know what it is that the want.

They know they can get ****s anywhere they want... not like us guys here who can't get puszies the same way... so screw what they want. if you want them, just get them...
 

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lishy..

thats the point. I came to this site trying to find out how women think, what they want. etc.

after years, i realized that women dont EVEN know what you want. its amazing to her it from the horses mouth however.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Lishy said:
We don't know what the feck we want!!!

Keep trying boys, you will keep getting it wrong but keep trying!:up:
We're 10 steps ahead of you as others have already suggested. Not only does a DJ here already know this, it's one of the main premises we use to do our thing.

This site is composed primarily of a core of men who have gotten it right over, and over, and over and simply want to share the wealth to other men.

If you want to benefit from this site, its clear that what you should do is either read or ask questions. Since I presume you're a woman, you're not going to find much helpful information since the site is primarily geared towards assisting men and, as is covered in multiple places in the DJ bible, women are just not cut out for doing that.

Reading "our" strategies won't help much either because you can even know all of the DJ bible, but you won't be able to help yourself when you're subjected to its techniques. "You guys" like what you like, and you can't help yourselves. You are what you are * shrug *, for better or worse. I absolutely love women so I certainly don't mean to imply anything deragetory.
 

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What do women want? Perpetual, ever evolving, and ever morphing (and often conflicting) validation from a variety of sources: men, other women, authority figures, etc. It would be great if you could get that validation and be done and happy with it, but... validation is an ideal, and like anything ideal, once you get it, you immediately form a new and different ideal to work toward, which of course makes it appear that women 'don't know what they want'. Of course they know what they want. The problem is that with a lot (not all, of course) of women - 'what they want' changes rapidly and often once they actually get it.
 

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Hey!

Here's what I want...*looks around*





A sandwhich.

You can have a slap on the ass if it's got my favourite type of cheese on it.
 

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azanon said:
Reading "our" strategies won't help much either because you can even know all of the DJ bible, but you won't be able to help yourself when you're subjected to its techniques. "You guys" like what you like, and you can't help yourselves. You are what you are * shrug *, for better or worse. I absolutely love women so I certainly don't mean to imply anything deragetory.
This would almost imply that (some) women may not have the intelligence to see through some of the tactics and manuevers for what they appear to be. They are (in some cases) able to resist.

Women can be extremely adaptive and adjust their attraction level accordingly.

Don't underestimate the smart ones.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My gf showed me a text forward she received:

How to keep a woman: be fun, charming, exciting, romantic, mysterious, sensitive, chivalrous... (long list continues)


How to keep a man: swallow
 

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Commando said:
This would almost imply that (some) women may not have the intelligence to see through some of the tactics and manuevers for what they appear to be. They are (in some cases) able to resist.

Women can be extremely adaptive and adjust their attraction level accordingly.

Don't underestimate the smart ones.
Smart ones? What? There are smart chicks?
 

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All humans have intelligence, some more than others. Doesn't mean they are immune to their natural impulses.
 

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I know what I want. But that's after years of getting what I didn't want.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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