"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What women want changes with their age. So choose your range!

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Here is the break down:

Women 18-24 : Mens' Looks = 80%-90% important
Women 25-35 : Mens' Looks = 40%-60% important
Women 36-45 : Mens' Looks = 10%-30% important
Women 45-99 : N/A = N/A

Note: for each time a reduction in the importance of looks is represented, there is a substantial increase in the importance of financial wealth.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Another Looks Thread disguised as, well, who knows what.
 

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Gangster Of Love said:
Another Looks Thread disguised as, well, who knows what.
This thread has nothing do with looks cause we all know how irrelevant looks are when it comes to understanding the modern dating dynamic between males and females.. This thread is about womens' age and how much more they want your money as they mature..:up:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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It's stupid for lots of reasons, but mostly because the original post is idiotic.
 

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It's more of biological time clock they run on, gotta get sh!t accomplished.
 

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I agree younger woman are more into looks than older woman. This is because younger woman are seen as being hotter by society. And younger woman are not so desperate to get married and have kids yet. Older woman will settle instead of staying single in there mid thirties.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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yep dumb thread. presenting these things like facts, but are merely opinions from an uneducated person (no offence)

it is like me saying: the older you get the more you care about your education

1-10 year olds: deteste education, and hate going to school

11-15 year olds: begin to understand its importance and care more

15-25 year olds: love education and cant get enough of it.

was this information based on facts or any research what so ever? HECK NO! so dont do it.
More like the above is stupid. How is that related to the OP??? And what's with the offense, i believe what the OP is about and it can be proven since its a natural reaction women go through. It's women nature to behave this way. You should learn to accept this and adapt to it.

You sir are the uneducated one since only fools despise the works of the wise, closing you mind to this perspective only adds to your ignorance and self destruction so i encourage you to continue this way. This is to all you others too.
 

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gtownjuan said:
More like the above is stupid. How is that related to the OP??? And what's with the offense, i believe what the OP is about and it can be proven since its a natural reaction women go through. It's women nature to behave this way. You should learn to accept this and adapt to it.

You sir are the uneducated one since only fools despise the works of the wise, closing you mind to this perspective only adds to your ignorance and self destruction so i encourage you to continue this way. This is to all you others too.

Exactly....!:up: :up: :up: :up:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Women from the age of 16 or so will want what she wants from then on, but depending on her attractiveness she will have to adjust her expectations or do without. As she ages she (should) know that her attractiveness begins to decline, and at a certain point she will become incredibly less choosy, or she will spend a lot more time with her ever growing family of cats.
 

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bigjohnson said:
Women from the age of 16 or so will want what she wants from then on, but depending on her attractiveness she will have to adjust her expectations or do without. As she ages she (should) know that her attractiveness begins to decline, and at a certain point she will become incredibly less choosy, or she will spend a lot more time with her ever growing family of cats.
Maybe....
 

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why is this forum so anal about looks threads again?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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