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What Women Really Want

The Duke

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This psychologist has some great insight regarding many of the same topics we discuss here.

-Why are women more unhappy than ever before when they have more choice than ever?

-Is there a swing towards masculinity being positive again?

-He shares his thoughts about alpha males, beta males, and females related to a game that was played on Survivor(at 4:01 in video). Basically it was a game of male vs. female. At some point it became obvious the women would lose. So the women did what women do and cornered the lower status beta males and played on their emotions and played on their fears/insecurities. The beta males fell for it and turned against the alpha males and voted them out. The women then rallied against the beta's and won the game. Women are in direct competition with men these days and using the weak males as soldiers and cry fowl when strong men act like strong men.

-What do women want...they want what other women want. They all follow trends. Men, not so much. Just look at fashion. Social Media is the stage where they all convene.

-Why do men work far harder to understand women, than women do to understand men?

-Why are women so anxious? Because they compare themselves to what other women are doing. Its impossible to be everything to everyone. Men get this, women struggle with it. Its about the Fear of Missing Out.



 

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The guy that provides the most fun emotional excitement to a woman will always win. Next, I will say it is status/money. Women like bad boys because they aren't boring and will always have them go through a tingle roller coaster ride. Rich & High-Status guys can artificially provide fun & excitement, but they cannot organically produce then they will lose to men who can provide that organic fun & excitement. This is why women want men who are like Travis Kelce, Travis Barker, or a Weekend Warrior Tupac with a degree hybrid because they are a combination of fun, safety, and economic stability.
 

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Forgot about that on survivor. Fckin broads man. So I guess being called intimidating is a badge of honor. I’ll take it.
 

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The guy that provides the most fun emotional excitement to a woman will always win. Next, I will say it is status/money. Women like bad boys because they aren't boring and will always have them go through a tingle roller coaster ride. Rich & High-Status guys can artificially provide fun & excitement, but they cannot organically produce then they will lose to men who can provide that organic fun & excitement. This is why women want men who are like Travis Kelce, Travis Barker, or a Weekend Warrior Tupac with a degree hybrid because they are a combination of fun, safety, and economic stability.
All those things are great, but it has to come from a position where you're not trying to get her approval. It has to come from you and from within and what you want to do or she will see it and get turned off.
 

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That guy...

Isn't it more about what H0ES really want? Because I see the most normie dudes with 6+ women all day long. I don't believe these norming bluepill -by - nature- guys are constantly providing an emotional roller-coaster, rather quite the opposite: they offer predictability and stability.

Seems like if we take 100 women, the number we talk about is like 30 . 50 of those women are occupied, 20 are...somewhere I geuss? Perhaps lesbos? The 30 that are left want that badboys Tupac with degrees yadiya. So 50 men want those 30 women.

So if we put some zeros behind it you could say 5000000 men fight for 3000000 women. On top of that those women chase the same type( tupac with degree) leaving perhaps 4 million men left out completely. Yes, a staggering number .
 
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