What Women Really Want

[Crissco]

**Taken from Badboy lifestyle e-book**


What Women Really Want

So basically, society tells us that we should buy girls drinks and fl owers, be
polite, be “ourselves”, kiss ass and be an all around “nice guy”. But for some
reason when we follow this advice, we get terrible results. Why?
Because for millions of years women were searching for protection, power
and safety from their man. Over million of years, it became part of their
genes that they need a real man!

These are innate survival instincts. In primitive times, females were attracted
to strong guys with big muscles because back then a guy with big muscles
was able to protect his family from intruders and hunt for food. He also had
good genes, so if girl chose him to father her babies, her babies would have
a much better chances to survive. With time, this choosing of who she is
going to mate with became instinctual and wired into her unconscious selection
process. Animals do the same thing. They don’t “think” about who will
provide the best offspring, they just feel something, some urge in their body
towards a particular mate…the same way a girl feels urges towards a certain
type of guy. We call that feeling ATTRACTION.

Hundreds of thousands of years ago, if a girl had the option to mate with a
strong, dominant, masculine guy or a weak guy with little power, of course
she would choose the masculine guy. Quick jump to our reality -- today,
girls still have attraction towards dominant males because it has become
wired into them through evolution. Things are a little different though… Today
it isn’t just the most muscular guy who has the best chance for survival,
though women still fi nd this attractive. It is also the guy with the most social
power and confi dence who dominates in our world. The guy who is high status,
confi dent and able to get what he wants from the world is the modern
alpha male. And women are programmed to be attracted to men who display
these alpha qualities, because it’s built into the right Hemisphere of the
brain for their protection and the protection of their offspring.
Today things like being rich, socially connected or well-built create automatic
attraction. But still the feeling behind both things, muscles and money, is the
same: SAFETY and PROTECTION.

The good news is that you don’t need to actually have lots of money or hugemuscles to covey that you are the alpha male. You just need to learn to
convey through behavior the traits that signal that you are this type of male.
She is wired on an instinctual level to pickup on these signals and her body
will subconsciously respond with feelings of attraction.

Learn to behave like an alpha male, a real alpha male and not just some
posturing chump, and you can tap into the innate attraction circuitry of a
woman’s brain and become irresistible to her.


Seduction Switches – All women are attracted to a guy who is:
Confident and not needy
Has a sense of humor
Knows what he wants
Adventurous and wild
Looks and dresses and smells nice
In control
Interesting and unpredictable
Sexual
Honest and bold
Wants a relationship with her
And most important, CARES about her and thinks she is SPECIAL!!

 

[zekko]

Wants a relationship with her

It's interesting that you listed that one since it isn't the kind of thing you usually see on this site. It's definitely a double edged sword.

On the one hand, we are told women want relationships. So it's no wonder you see so many posts here by guys saying "She ditched me, the great DJ, to go back to her AFC boyfriend". Of course she went back to her AFC boyfriend, she and him have more invested in each other. What do you have to offer other than a night of sex (which, face it, she can get anywhere)?

Guys here often make the mistake that having a relationship goes against DJ principles, that it is the path to oneitis and other evils, and so they avoid it at all costs. The problem is even huge @sshole behavior can become tiresome and boring to a woman after a while, once she realizes her real needs are not going to be met. So yeah, she is attracted to the idea of a guy willing to have a relationship with her. She may like the bad boy, but she's eventually going to give up on him if he won't settle down.

On the other hand, if a guy starts acting like he wants a relationship with a girl, and the girl thinks it is too early, few things can repel a girl so completely. The guy risks coming off as needy, desperate, optionless. and a huge loser. "How can this guy want a relationship after only x dates?".

So this is a bit like playing with fire. I prefer to stick with the "Let's see where this is going" frame of mind, until the girl comes to the conclusion that she wants a relationship.

[QUOTE-Crissco]And most important, CARES about her and thinks she is SPECIAL!![/QUOTE]
There are probably objections on this forum about this one too. But an old friend of mine, who was very good with women, used to always tell me to say this to women: "I don't know, there's just something about you..."
I never used it, but it worked for him, and I could see why. It says to the girl that she is special while still remaining vague.

 

[The Karate Kid]

I just had a girl i used to date(my one that I let get away) tell me that she hated that I never made her feel special. That for all the time we spent together, she didn't think she was Important to me(not true at all). She pulled away because of it.

Once you have been seeing a chick for a good bit, if you don't make her feel like she is special sometimes, you will lose her.

 

[bluenorther]

I just had a girl i used to date(my one that I let get away) tell me that she hated that I never made her feel special. That for all the time we spent together, she didn't think she was Important to me(not true at all). She pulled away because of it.

Once you have been seeing a chick for a good bit, if you don't make her feel like she is special sometimes, you will lose her.

I wonder if it's possible to do things that'll make a woman feel "special". IMO, she'll feel a lot more special when we ALLOW her to do stuff to make US feel special.

 

[The Karate Kid]

Well, I had been seeing the girl for a few months, were basically together, but i didnt want the title. So i deflected any feelings or relationship talk. She told me she wanted to hear compliments somtimes, and that she was more than just someone to screw. Hell, she even told me she didnt want much, just to know.

I think once you have been seeing someone for a while, you should do those sweet, romantic things women always talk about. Be a man, like you should be, but dont be afraid to be passionate about someone.

my case is actually pretty unique, at least i think, in the sense that she has a boyfriend, and all we have done the past few months is fight about us(i miss her, oneitis, afc ****), and yet, she still is there whenever i need her, and puts up with all my bull****. Prob the only girl i know that will deal with all of it, and still want me around, lol

 

[Crissco]

I wonder if it's possible to do things that'll make a woman feel "special". IMO, she'll feel a lot more special when we ALLOW her to do stuff to make US feel special.

Both of the girls im seeing told me this exact same thing. They both get turned on when they see that there satisfying me.