What Women Are Attracted To

[NSUballer]

We all know that all women are not the same but do share a certain characteristic. That characteristic is the "Ideal" guy mentality. This is like a guys picture in his head of a gorgeous girl with big boobs slim waist and big butts.

We all know that there is no such thing as ideal. We all have faults and shortcomings. It is how we project ourselves to the opposite sex that matters the most when trying to attract any woman. Women often say they want one thing and then do something completely different. The same goes with the "Ideal" mentality. If you can just project one or some of the characteristics of an ideal guy.

I would say Ideal characteristics are health, financial security, smart/educated, positive attitude, and physical attractiveness. These are things that pretty much all human beings would be attracted to. But thats only the first part. If you can accomplish one or all of these things, then you will notice a difference in the way people treat you.

 

[Mad Manic]

I'd say ideal characteristics are race and class, then other things afterwards like social circle, looks, personality, etc. But mainly race and class + a bit of looks and social proof is more than enough. As the guys who get girls say, getting girls isn't really that difficult. But you either tick the boxes or you don't, there's little room for manuevre.

Example: There is a HB7 white girl at a given university, she's English.

Who gets the girl:

- The guy who is also white and english, about 6/10 in looks, fairly average personality and hangs around with other white english guys and has met her on nights out etc.

or

- The guy who is tanned and say lebanese, about 8/10 in looks, very talkative and funny and hangs around with various types of people and has met her only in the gym or at the supermarket.

99/100 times it's the english guy.

MM

 

[ChrizZ]

I'd say ideal characteristics are race and class, then other things afterwards like social circle, looks, personality, etc. But mainly race and class + a bit of looks and social proof is more than enough. As the guys who get girls say, getting girls isn't really that difficult. But you either tick the boxes or you don't, there's little room for manuevre.

Example: There is a HB7 white girl at a given university, she's English.

Who gets the girl:

- The guy who is also white and english, about 6/10 in looks, fairly average personality and hangs around with other white english guys and has met her on nights out etc.

or

- The guy who is tanned and say lebanese, about 8/10 in looks, very talkative and funny and hangs around with various types of people and has met her only in the gym or at the supermarket.

99/100 times it's the english guy.

MM

*sigh*

 

[NSUballer]

Yes that is the way of the world. People of one race will naturally stick to mating/dating people of their own race. People are conditioned from the time they are small children to stick with people that are like you the most. And it only gets stronger over time.

All people are not like that though, to some race matters as much as Eye color. But for the most part, race does play the #1 role in attraction....but youre not supposed to talk about that.

 

[Mad Manic]

Yes that is the way of the world. People of one race will naturally stick to mating/dating people of their own race. People are conditioned from the time they are small children to stick with people that are like you the most. And it only gets stronger over time.

All people are not like that though, to some race matters as much as Eye color. But for the most part, race does play the #1 role in attraction....but youre not supposed to talk about that.

Yes, it took me 20 years to figure that out though, serious. Mainly because I'm not socially conditioned in that way so it was mysterious to me.

MM

 

[DonJuan11]

Example: There is a HB7 white girl at a given university, she's English.

Who gets the girl:

- The guy who is also white and english, about 6/10 in looks, fairly average personality and hangs around with other white english guys and has met her on nights out etc.

or

- The guy who is tanned and say lebanese, about 8/10 in looks, very talkative and funny and hangs around with various types of people and has met her only in the gym or at the supermarket.

99/100 times it's the english guy.

Dude I don't think that's right. 8/10 lebanese guy vs. 6/10 white guy for a white girl? Opposites attract and lebanese guys are usually darker than white guys.

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Now I ain't saying she a Gold Digger
But she ain't messing with no broke @#$@#$

 

[Mad Manic]

Dude I don't think that's right. 8/10 lebanese guy vs. 6/10 white guy for a white girl? Opposites attract and lebanese guys are usually darker than white guys.

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Now I ain't saying she a Gold Digger
But she ain't messing with no broke @#$@#$

ROFL the darker you are the worse your social status. Also as NSU said people are conditioned to date/mate/befriend their own race first, other than the exception case where you have a foreign girl dating a white guy because she sees it as a step up and she hates how her culture is ridiculed e.g.) chinese girls. It's not that much about physical attraction, it's how social circles and society works. The white girl sees the white guy as a better choice because it all ties in with what she knows and the race that her friends are etc.

 

[ChrizZ]

Yes that is the way of the world. People of one race will naturally stick to mating/dating people of their own race. People are conditioned from the time they are small children to stick with people that are like you the most. And it only gets stronger over time.

All people are not like that though, to some race matters as much as Eye color. But for the most part, race does play the #1 role in attraction....but youre not supposed to talk about that.

You keep telling yourself that. The problem isn't your race, it's because most of you guys are skinny geeks.

Damn, I'm slowly getting sick of all the lame a$$ excuses.

You are telling me a bada$$ asian guy like this guy would never be able to pull a white woman???

http://www.watchingbionicwoman.com/wp-content/uploads/Will_Yun_Lee_at_Kite_Runner.jpg

Or an Indian guy like this guy could never pull white women?

http://news.bbc.co.uk/media/images/44357000/jpg/_44357209_gall_salman_pa.jpg

 

[Mad Manic]

You keep telling yourself that. The problem isn't your race, it's because most of you guys are skinny geeks.

Damn, I'm slowly getting sick of all the lame a$$ excuses.

You are telling me a bada$$ asian guy like this guy would never be able to pull a white woman???

http://www.watchingbionicwoman.com/wp-content/uploads/Will_Yun_Lee_at_Kite_Runner.jpg

Or an Indian guy like this guy could never pull white women?

http://news.bbc.co.uk/media/images/44357000/jpg/_44357209_gall_salman_pa.jpg

Ok Chrizz, I read your post and was shocked, but then I realised you are only 18, so not to worry.

Look at the first line that you wrote. You said his problem wasn't his race, but that people of his race are skinny geeks. Now think for a minute. It shows how people are stereotyped and brainwashed to put races/ethnicities into a hierachy just like you did, without realising. No offence but white people (I'm 80% caucasian actually, but I'm a bit tanned so I say white as in fully white ...) generally don't have good genetics in the body department. Yes better than indians and chinese, but compared to blacks, scandinavians, eastern europeans and eurasia (Russia, Iran) definitely not as good.

As for your links, please get off youtube and try and use real life examples to back up any points you make. I back up my points with personal and general experiences from what I see at university and around me, not commercialised rubbish off youtube. The media is full of BS depicting people in one way or another and influencing society in one way or another.

If you have real life examples of how all races are equal, or how races intermix a lot, or how white women have rejected potential white mates for foreign ones then share them. Otherwise the things you post about indian and chinese superstars are just drivel.

MM

 

[ChrizZ]

Ok Chrizz, I read your post and was shocked, but then I realised you are only 18, so not to worry.

Look at the first line that you wrote. You said his problem wasn't his race, but that people of his race are skinny geeks. Now think for a minute. It shows how people are stereotyped and brainwashed to put races/ethnicities into a hierachy just like you did, without realising. No offence but white people (I'm 80% caucasian actually, but I'm a bit tanned so I say white as in fully white ...) generally don't have good genetics in the body department. Yes better than indians and chinese, but compared to blacks, scandinavians, eastern europeans and eurasia (Russia, Iran) definitely not as good.

As for your links, please get off youtube and try and use real life examples to back up any points you make. I back up my points with personal and general experiences from what I see at university and around me, not commercialised rubbish off youtube. The media is full of BS depicting people in one way or another and influencing society in one way or another.

If you have real life examples of how all races are equal, or how races intermix a lot, or how white women have rejected potential white mates for foreign ones then share them.

MM

"Oh, my genetics are so bad. Oh, oh, oh...I can never gain muscle!"

You never do anything, but make excuses.

You complain all the time instead of actually doing something about it.

Hot women want a man of high value. They don't care what race he is if he has power.

You sir are a lost cause.

Why are you on here anyways if you don't want to improve and try to bring the forum down with your geeky weak a$$ responses?

 

[Mad Manic]

"Oh, my genetics are so bad. Oh, oh, oh...I can never gain muscle!"

You never do anything, but make excuses.

You complain all the time instead of actually doing something about it.

Hot women want a man of high value. They don't care what race he is if he has power.

You sir are a lost cause.

Why are you on here anyways if you don't want to improve and try to bring the forum down with your geeky weak a$$ responses?

LOL Chrizz, I'm probably one of the strongest guys on this forum with one of the best genetics for bodybuilding too. I was talking about chinese and indians, which you stereotyped as skinny geeks even though people of your ethnicity are naturally quite thin.

I think this forum needs a middle ground where we don't have one camp saying it's a waste of time unless you're white and another camp saying every race is seen as equal and it has nothing to do with race. That way some constructive advice might be given.

MM

 

[L777]

But for the most part, race does play the #1 role in attraction....but youre not supposed to talk about that.

Are you for real?

Christ you're even stupider than you first seemed!!

And to the guys obsessed about race and height. You should check out www.themajesticself.com , some of the best guys on there are indian and pakistani, and they don't look that tall to me!!

 

[Mad Manic]

Nail, meet hammer.

All I hear on here is whiny, loser excuses. TBH I couldn't hear the excuses properly for all the ****ing myself - and my asian amtes - are doing.

I guess in the 'coffee is for closers' speech, Alec Baldwin was right when he said "a loser is a loser"...

[I'd rep you mate but it's telling me to spread some round first]

From experience the guys who get laid are usually the ones who don't feel the need to write it in their posts or to mention it in real life. Nothing worse than a guy trying to brag over the internet about something that's probably not true.

You complain about people whining, fair enough. But you're part of the problem too because you don't even give good advice. The only advice I've had off you which has helped is faking your ethnicity to something more acceptable and closer to english, which has helped (thanks btw).

MM

 

[hopeful loner]

Is it just me or does MM have a weird obsession with "race"? In the guise of commenting on (what he says) are truths of the world there appears to be the true intention of justifying and rooting for those 'truths'.

 

[Snow Plowman]

I'm going to stay on topic...

...chicks are attracted to social value...which makes them receptive to advances...

then there is physically attractive which makes her sexually aggressive...but if you have high social value and kino you will cause her to become sexually aggressive as if she was physically attracted.

Plain and simple...

Also for the guys talking about race lol...you guys are chodes. Get the fuk out the house and stop making excuses.

I've hung out with...about 15 guys...about 5 of them were asian, 3 were indian, one of those 3 happen to be an intern for a well known dating company.

Also who says people date in there own race? I'm black and I haven't fuked a black girl in...almost 3 years so go figure. All you guys are just making excuses get the fuk out the house and have fun. End of story.

 

[Mad Manic]

Is it just me or does MM have a weird obsession with "race"? In the guise of commenting on (what he says) are truths of the world there appears to be the true intention of justifying and rooting for those 'truths'.

Yes I do have a race complex. Never used to have it until uni this year, have it really bad now. I analyse everything and see lots of little things that really tick me off. I agree with the advice to just forget about it and play the game though, easier said than done.

MM

 

[BMX]

I'm asian/spanish and dated only european so far. I'm attracted to white girls primarily, but I agree the race thing is BS. If someone wants to refuse you because you are x race, let them and you will find one not so much worried about race.

 

[Mad Manic]

I'm attracted to white girls primarily, but I agree the race thing is BS.

ROFL, that made me laugh out loud. Gonna add that to my favourite quotes list!

MM

 

[MrStabAHo]

"Oh, my genetics are so bad. Oh, oh, oh...I can never gain muscle!"

You never do anything, but make excuses.

You complain all the time instead of actually doing something about it.

Hot women want a man of high value. They don't care what race he is if he has power.

You sir are a lost cause.

Why are you on here anyways if you don't want to improve and try to bring the forum down with your geeky weak a$$ responses?

Misery loves company...

 

[NSUballer]

I dont know where any of you live or how much experience with women. But where I live, all the things I metioned come into play. However none of them are absolute. That is reality.

I possess some of the characteristics noted above. Health, I work out 4 times a week and run with a 6'1 225 lb frame. I go to college, know a lot of different people, met a lot of different women, and can hold a conversation with just about anyone. Ive also been told Im more attractive than "most" guys, by more than a few different girls. Physical attraction at the beginning of any relationship is key. This is because people know within seconds of seeing ,not talking,another person they find attractive if they would sleep with them. After that is when the rest of you comes into play. Personality, attitude, and everything else that makes you you.

All of you that dont understand what women want, just watch them some time. Girls that you know, research them, what they say, how they act. This takes a long time, but if you want to do at least okay with women you have to know exactly what youre dealing with. You cant just jump right from little league to the Big leagues.