What woman do ?

[yogy]

So let's say you are in are in a relationship with a woman (for 2-3 months) and things are very bad for the man (she won't go out with you: " i am meeting with girls","i am very tired"...;doesn't call/message you until you make the first move...),I mean it's clear that it's no future for this relationship.

So I've got a few questions about what she is thinking/doing.
1. Why she is not breaking up with him when it is soooooo clear that she not into this relationship ???
2. In this situation what are this women doing? I mean is she is dating/having sex with other men or she is waiting until the " official" break up ?

 

[Mr. Wolf]

She might be doing that for a variety of reasons.. Such as she has not found a better man, she is doing both men, she could be going through some tough personal times, etc, etc, etc.. There is no end to reasons..

Important thing is that for you as a man, it doesn't matter what little girls do..

What matters is not to give a crap and have more than a few of them around.. Which also insures that she can't get bad with you, or else, as she knows, she'll be without a man..

A woman without a man is a rejected woman, that hurts them bad.

 

[yogy]

Ok.
Then let me give you another example:
A couple of years ago I had a thing with this girl and wasn't very sure if she is LTR material or not.After 2-3 dates with here my birthday was coming and she knew it.So I had a BIG party coming for my birthday ( a LOT of hot/single girls) and not being sure about my "girlfriend" and knowing that i'll have good time at my party (meaning sex for sure) I decided to go out (a romantic dinner) with this girl and latter do go to my party (without her).

So my question is: Do girls do the same (inviting you somewhere and then go to the REAL fun) out of obligation or they will invite you too/or just don't go out with you? And I am talking about a major event like her birthday or other big event for her...

Important thing is that for you as a man, it doesn't matter what little girls do..

I am asking this questions because I am interested if girls are really that different from guys or not.

 

[iqqi]

No, girls aren't really all that different from guys in what they do.

 

[yogy]

So my question is: Do girls do the same (inviting you somewhere and then go to the REAL fun) out of obligation or they will invite you too/or just don't go out with you? And I am talking about a major event like her birthday or other big event for her...

And what about this kind of situation ?