"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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HollowHorizon

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About a year and a half ago, i was kickin it, i had it all... and a beautiful women and i could get whoever iw anted now i see im going downhill, i cant seem to be smooth or get back into game, my head has so much running through it and its time to change, basicly i need a consultant, a master don juan so to speak so if anyone is willing please reply
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Zod

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Like your title says, can you tell us what went wrong?
 

Inquire

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this is what u have to do, and have to be focused!!!

before u go out the door. slap urself in the face, and say "ur getting another one if i dont see twenty numbers in ur pockets when u get back!" then do wut u have to do. yea....
 

08aisaac

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Originally posted by Inquire
this is what u have to do, and have to be focused!!!

before u go out the door. slap urself in the face, and say "ur getting another one if i dont see twenty numbers in ur pockets when u get back!" then do wut u have to do. yea....
I laughed. True. Well like basically why do you think you are slipping? Are you starting to focus on your life instead of just clubbing, or parties? Are you actually starting to set goals? Because when you start doing that, it is best to get in an LTR, imo.
 
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