"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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HollowHorizon

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About a year and a half ago, i was kickin it, i had it all... and a beautiful women and i could get whoever iw anted now i see im going downhill, i cant seem to be smooth or get back into game, my head has so much running through it and its time to change, basicly i need a consultant, a master don juan so to speak so if anyone is willing please reply
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Like your title says, can you tell us what went wrong?
 

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this is what u have to do, and have to be focused!!!

before u go out the door. slap urself in the face, and say "ur getting another one if i dont see twenty numbers in ur pockets when u get back!" then do wut u have to do. yea....
 

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Originally posted by Inquire
this is what u have to do, and have to be focused!!!

before u go out the door. slap urself in the face, and say "ur getting another one if i dont see twenty numbers in ur pockets when u get back!" then do wut u have to do. yea....
I laughed. True. Well like basically why do you think you are slipping? Are you starting to focus on your life instead of just clubbing, or parties? Are you actually starting to set goals? Because when you start doing that, it is best to get in an LTR, imo.
 
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