What went wrong?

[rick6599]

I called this girl in Italy (I live in Amsterdam) She was "unpleasantly" surprised, but very excited, so we had 4 heated phone conversations in one day. Key question from her was "What do you want from me?" - and at that point I almost had her stepping on the plane for Amsterdam to come and live with me. All her talk of "boyfriend" suddenly dissapeared, and she had a story of "I live from day to day, don't know where I am or where I am going to be" Quite a story, because she can always be neatly found on this exact phone number. Anyway, I had a strong lead "I get you a ticket, you step on the plane, and here you are." Then - mistake. Instead of keep pushing her strong, I called next day, with stupid, melancholic "How do you feel today?" type of mood - she smelled weakness - and turned me down "Don't call anymore, this is bothering me" Is there anything I could do at this point?

 

[Crotch Sniffer]

Uhh, yeah.

Find a girl who lives in AMSTERDAM and doesn't have a boyfriend

 

[bp1974]

What went wrong?

I called this girl in Italy (I live in Amsterdam)

uh..

 

[xblitz44x]

You're annoying her, and freaking her out. Just because you were asking her how she feels, doesn't mean she thought of you as "weak". That has nothing to do with it. You weirded her out, you live hundreds of miles away, and she has a boyfriend.

 

[DJ Girl]

Ditto bp1974...

You can't find someone that lives in Amsterdam?

 

[rick6599]

This is true, DJ friends, I freaked her out. No problem for me to get a lot of girls, quite a player when it comes to one night stands etc. The thing is , I got hung up on her emotionally, she would always come to me with teasing questions , like "Am I still the woman in your life" etc. I guess, now I have to shut up, and the pain will fade away. Still - I have got NO idea how to behave, or what to say when she comes to my face again ( it will happen some time in two months) Should I behave macho? Like: "F**k off, leave me alone" or? ...