"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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AriMamba

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It seemed like the text conversation was going well, to the point where she suggested we go to a strip club to celebrate our birthdays.

Then i said, "oh you stripping? I'm down ;)"
And she replied with "No I don't strip sorry"

Of course I said it was just a joke but she never responded back.

What can i do?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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SayWhat

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Look I'm just a beginning dj, but what I get from this is she was just testing. You're reply from 'it was just a joke' might have made it worse, never apologize for what you said even not in the form of it was a joke, only if it was really wrong like saying something about a dead pet etc...

Have a solid frame
 
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Yewki

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She sounds uptight and is maybe a prude. Probably not your type anyways.

Your biggest mistake was to relent and say it was just a joke, as SayWhat pointed out.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yorkex

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Another reason WHY you DONT flirt over text , expecially with a woman you are not married to or see on the regular.

These sort of convos are for the phone or in person , when she can sense the playful tone of your voice and the sarcasm. ( A woman you are dating or married to knows your tend acids and will likely read the text in your playful voice )

Consider this a lesson , save the texting for short convos and setting up dates.
 
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Yewki said:
She sounds uptight and is maybe a prude. Probably not your type anyways..
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This is what I take from it too.
 
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