"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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what went wrong? need advice please.

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THIS IS LONG BUT READ AND GIVE ME SOME ADVICE PLEASE

theres this chick at school who ive know since jan. we had a class together back in the winter, never made a move on her cuz i was in a relationship but we ended up crossing paths not too long ago and she asked about my relationship, i told her i was single again and we exchanged numbers. she told me that she had been checking me out since winter but she didnt think she was my type, which she is and i let her know it. we went out for the first time last fri. it went good..atleast i thought it did.

1st dinner, we both love sushi so we stopped at a sushi bar and tried some new stuff had a good conversation and i taught her how 2 use chopsticks. we had a few toast with some saki then got outta there. next, air hockey, video games and pool. lot of fun and laughs, good convo, a few touches and eyes gazes. 3rd, bar/club (wasnt part of my plans but spur of the moment).

shes driving (i dont have a car) i get out first so i can walk to her door and be a gentelman and help her out the car. at this point of the night i know shes interested in me but her interest level isnt where i want it to be but i intend on uping it. when she gets out the car i stick my arm out a bit so she can link her arm wit mine as we walk. she does. but then she lets go of my arm and reaches down to hold my hand interlocking her fingers with mine. at this point i know her interest is high (maybe i was reading n2 the hand holdin a lil too deep but i dont think so). we get in the club start dancing extremely close, shes grinding with me and about a half hour in were kissing the rest of the night away.

after the club lets out were still in the parking lot a half hour later talkin and kissing some more. get in the car, more kissing (lips, neck, upper part of chest) not to mention shes moaning like im eating her. she tells me how shes comfortable wit me, she likes how im aggressive but still respectful, she likes how i appreciate her body unlike the white guys she dates. (shes a thick latina who only dates white guys that tells her shes fat).

she drives me home (my goal is not to sleep wit her on the 1st night so im wasnt gonna try 2 press that issue) we pull up at my apartment and i playfully say to her "why arent u gonna walk me to my door". she gets out the car we passionately kiss some more for about 5 mins and she goes on her way and texts me later that night to let me know she made it home safe. perfect date i thought. majority of the time once i take a chick out on one date shes all over me from that point on but not this one. i couldnt believe it cuz that night was so good i just new she would be callin the f%$# outta me and tryin 2 see me again soon. nope not her. it could be my imagination but it seems like shes tryin to avoid me.

we were supposed to hook up yesterday to study. i texted her about it she says "i got somethin 2 do today". the text sounded very cold. i texted her like 2 other times easrlier this week just on some whats up stuff but it seems like shes being very short with me and blowin me off. anyway ive said the hell with it and deleted her number cuz im not bout 2 chase her cuz i know some other girl who wouldve loved to have been in her place that night. but part of me wants to ask her str8 forward what the problem is (i know better than to do that).

maybe she thought about the night and she thinks she made herself look like a hoe (which she didnt) so she dosent want to see me? or maybe i came on 2 strong yet she was receptive to all my advances. what do u guys think is the problem? should i see whats up with her? should i say the hell wit it and keep movin? advice please.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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usually i wouldnt text a chick but all of our previous interactions were thru text. even the first date setup and directions to my crib. we both work and go to school so actually gettin on the phone has never happened wit us so i figured in this case texting her wouldnt have caused a problem......

oh my bad jc. now i know what u meant by "runs into wall of text" i thought u were referring to me texting her this week. damn im dumb. lol
 
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alright you all, stop viewing and post some replies. this aint my fvckin diary that posted for your entertainment. i seriously want advice and opinions.
 

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No offence, but could you separate your paragraph into multiple paragraphs? Its extremely hard to read as it is, and thats probably why nobody is giving you advice: they don't want to bother reading your wall of text.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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she prob. wanted you to bang her.... and you didnt

" she likes how you're agressive"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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judoguy said:
she prob. wanted you to bang her.... and you didnt

" she likes how you're agressive"
i dropped a hint and told her to come walk wit me to my door she declined so i wasnt gonna press it but she did get out to hug and kiss me and she left the car running when she got out so i took that as a sign that she wasnt comin in
 

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Tyson420 said:
She found someone else dude. How long has it been since the date?
fri. well if thats all it is i can deal wit that. im def not lookin 4 a relationship anyway. just wanna make sure i didnt mess up anywhere down the line.
 

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You never came on too strong, the ***** said she liked how your aggressive.

Personally I think you handled it very well in the end, so I salute you.
 

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Usually these kinds of girls like dating jerks who put them down as she hinted. You were probably too nice to her whorin' azz. I wouldn't be surprised if there's some ex-boyfriend drama lurkin' around.
 

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SickAgain said:
Usually these kinds of girls like dating jerks who put them down as she hinted. You were probably too nice to her whorin' azz. I wouldn't be surprised if there's some ex-boyfriend drama lurkin' around.
wow. i was thinkin the same sh!t. cuz she did show me some brusies on her that night that she recieved from her so called ex who threw her down the stairs and then called the cops on her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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