Ok, just a few minutes ago actually I was doing some things on the net. And, I decide to check my myspace, and when I get on i have this comment from this girl that was in one of my classes for the last half of my senior year in high school, Well i think i have her number around somewhere but I have never called her, because she is def someone i could party with or maybe even have sex with but not really someone i care to date or get into a relationship with or really even hang out with if where sober. But anywho i got this comment from her that said hey *****, I haven't talked to her all summer at all or made an attempt to, so of course i message her back sayin hey punk whats up? she reply's like 5 min later she was like nm trying not to feel bad I've got a hangover. So i reply with well thats not to smart what did you do go to a party last night. Then she reply's back and im not sure what it says cus i haven't read it yet she IM's me on AIM and was like know be easier if you would have just IMed me on here, i tell her i didn't know she was on ( which i didn't ) and then shes like well what have you been up to all summer. Well i read her message on Myspace and all it says yea i went party i threw up like the whole night so i say on AIM to her yea i didn't need to know you threw up btw ( in a jokin matter ) and then i said i've been having a pretty decent summer hangin out with friends tryin have as much fun as i can, and ive been working too. What about yourself? she says i just got back a week ago from my summer camp job, then i ask where its at. She answered North Carolina, so i reply what did you have to do there? and she answers with i had to pretty much babysit a bunch of brats the whole summer, I reply well thats not nice to say ( joking again ) and she goes idc i hated that job only thing i liked about it was i got weekends off, so I could do crazy **** on the weekends. SO i reply really what kind of so called crazy **** did you do. She says just good drunkin times, and i reply im sure more stuff happend than you just got drunk, she answered yea they did but im not gunna tell you lol. So i reply with a why is that and then she signs off. So i was j/w how did i go wrong on that convo it's not i really care about this girl or anything would sleep with her like i said but thats about it, but i am tryin to brush up on my DJing these days because i have been going down hill a lil and need to pick myself back up so if anyone wants to comment with what might have been wrong with things i said or missed in the convo let me know
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
you shoulda cut the last question because you were on the internet but you could have said before she said "idc i hated that job only thing i liked about it was i got weekends off, so I could do crazy **** on the weekends" and you coulda said "hey so much negativity, you should come do some of that partying with me sometime. gimme ur number (ask even though you have it) and well find a party and forget all about work 
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Girl has hung over and needs some baby to talk to.
You gave her what she wanted.
Hey ******* is not an appropriate thing to say, at least to me. So I wouldn't have talked to her in the first place. But you did, so...
HER: Hey *******
YOU: hey punk what's up?
HER: nm trying not to feel bad having hangover.
YOU: Well that's not smart, what did you do, go party last night?
translation of what you said there. "I want to be your daddy, and I want to know what you did last night."
What I'd say to nm trying....
ME: Hmmm. If you feeling guilty fvcking that guy or those men, go to curch and tell it to the priest. I'm not priest, baby.
Translation to that is that I don't give a fvck about you nor care what you did last night. Push that hoe away. She'll come back at ya stronger.
Your problem there is that you talking to a hungover chick. That's 1. Then 2 is that you asking and saying what she expects. She looked at you and said average. At least she was hangover. Screw her.
You gave her what she wanted.
Hey ******* is not an appropriate thing to say, at least to me. So I wouldn't have talked to her in the first place. But you did, so...
HER: Hey *******
YOU: hey punk what's up?
HER: nm trying not to feel bad having hangover.
YOU: Well that's not smart, what did you do, go party last night?
translation of what you said there. "I want to be your daddy, and I want to know what you did last night."
What I'd say to nm trying....
ME: Hmmm. If you feeling guilty fvcking that guy or those men, go to curch and tell it to the priest. I'm not priest, baby.
Translation to that is that I don't give a fvck about you nor care what you did last night. Push that hoe away. She'll come back at ya stronger.
Your problem there is that you talking to a hungover chick. That's 1. Then 2 is that you asking and saying what she expects. She looked at you and said average. At least she was hangover. Screw her.