It's a slow and gradual process if you ask me...I had a long journey from social retard to...well...still a virgin, but I don't expect that to last, nor does anybody. At first the only girls checking me out were ugly as sin, and opportunities slowly started to build as I improved myself.
First I became friends with someone who knows some girls, then a year later my friend introduced me to a girl and we became friends, then I learned how to flirt, then I changed my hairstyle, then I got my first kiss, then I learned how to lightly kino, then I learned to be less awkward around girls, then I took accutane to get rid of my acne, then I stopped giving a sh!t about girls and becoming infatuated with any of them, then I learned to project my voice and be ****y, then I gained real confidence instead of faking it, then I got my hair cut short, then I learned how to escalate, then I stopped smoking pot and started going out more....now I'm bulking up and going out to parties often and practicing my game.
I'm really thin, thinner than anyone here I guarantee you, so I think once I've been eating steadily and going to the gym for a few months, THAT will be my real turning point, where I'm hooking up with a new cute girl on a weekly basis.
But I think what helped me the most was realizing the importance of eliminating the "AFC mindset" and making sure I place myself in social situations. I had watched Mystery's show beforehand but he focuses more on tricks and gimmicks in clubs...you'll get nowhere if your lifestyle isn't conducive to meeting girls, and if you think like a wuss. "Aww, gee, I sure hope this girl likes me! She's soo smart and unique, I better make her my girlfriend before she goes after some other guy!" Yuck.
