"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What was your introduction to Sex, Women , and Relationships?

2Rocky

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  • Age of first Kiss?
  • Did you have Girlfriends in elementary school/Junior High/High school?
  • Age you lost your Virginity?
  • Any incidents that you were "shamed " for your sexuality?
  • Notch count through college.

This is not a **** measuring contest but in order for other members to understand how your experiences shaped you and your approach to women.

I have to say I grew up in a good-ish time between the Sexual Revolution and Feminism, and I doubt many boys today will have it as "Good" as I had It.

I kissed my first girl at age 6
Had girls interested in me through elementary school, but they were never the girls in my class. Summer camp romances were fleeting but a few memorable kisses.
Junior high was stalked by obsessed ugly girl and embarrassed by her attentions.
Felt my first bare breast the summer between 7/8th grade.
Pursued girls through out high school but never had a "going steady relationship". Heavy petting was the limit of my experience.
Lost my virginity in a one night stand the summer of my Junior year
Was accused of "improper actions" my senior year which really set me back in my confidence and messed with my head.
College: My second notch came a year and a half after my first. I had a few more encounters before I met the woman I married (notch count of 5 before her)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Barrister

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  • Age of first Kiss?
  • Did you have Girlfriends in elementary school/Junior High/High school?
  • Age you lost your Virginity?
  • Any incidents that you were "shamed " for your sexuality?
  • Notch count through college.

This is not a **** measuring contest but in order for other members to understand how your experiences shaped you and your approach to women.

I have to say I grew up in a good-ish time between the Sexual Revolution and Feminism, and I doubt many boys today will have it as "Good" as I had It.

I kissed my first girl at age 6
Had girls interested in me through elementary school, but they were never the girls in my class. Summer camp romances were fleeting but a few memorable kisses.
Junior high was stalked by obsessed ugly girl and embarrassed by her attentions.
Felt my first bare breast the summer between 7/8th grade.
Pursued girls through out high school but never had a "going steady relationship". Heavy petting was the limit of my experience.
Lost my virginity in a one night stand the summer of my Junior year
Was accused of "improper actions" my senior year which really set me back in my confidence and messed with my head.
College: My second notch came a year and a half after my first. I had a few more encounters before I met the woman I married (notch count of 5 before her)
I was a “late bloomer” as far as my physical looks. Very shy growing up and didn’t begin to hit my stride until high school.

First kiss: 14
First BJ: 15
Lost Virginity: 17
First steady relationship (high school sweetheart into college): 17-20
Married: 26
Divorced: 31

I do very well post-divorce with women. Far better than at any other point in life.
Combination of looking the best physically I ever have (most natural good looks but stay in good shape as well) and high confidence.
 

Mister_Skinny_Jeanz

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got head at 13 i focked her too, girl took me home and i'll never forget. it was a latina with crooked teeth and big ass boobs, was a heartbreaker in middle school, scarred from a girl i grew up in my neighborhood that i went out with for less than 3 days , she broke up with me and told me ''i do the the break ups first''. i didnt realize that i was actually gettin with girls ****in em and breakin up with them because of this experience fast forward to highschool in a new city STUD , had girls mad that i wouldnt invite them in, girls comin to my door askin for me , girls talkin about sex blatantly to my face trying to get focked, a girl once told my brother ''hes cute , im on my period but he can get some head'' he never told me about then when confronted he ''forgot '' smh , many more girls from that school would come to my mothers car and ask for me , two girls both named jasmine one black one latina both came up to me and introduced themselves , i reckon they were watching me for a while .. then made their move. worked at amazon in ATLANTA and fockin slayd after i ****ed the onsite nurse there , sooo many girls let me fock after that .
 
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