"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What was your ‘awakening moment’ as a man when it comes to understanding women, and how did it shape you into becoming a better man?

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Hello friends.

What was the moment in your life when you realized something that forever changed your perspective on the world of women and on how to become a great man, and from that moment on, you understood how to do things, the tools to use, tc..?

Please describe your experience.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Women really aren't mystical beings that can't be understood and they're people. This happened when I began to be able to interpret the subtle behaviors, predict how they'd react and knew when they said/did something that was "in the playbook." There are quite a few common traps they'll try to use. This may either be done on purpose or accident.

I knew I knew these things when I started to get hate texts hurled at me and I had no idea where or who they were coming from. Sometimes I didn't even know why. And if I DID know who/why I was starting to become amused rather than angry or hurt.

Then I started to attract the kind of women I really liked on a deeper level. Everything started to "click" and seem more natural with women. Women in my past began to notice this too. I've seen more than once a longing glance from women when I've visited church in my hometown on the rare occasion. (No, I didn't burst into flame upon entering LOL) This is probably where most men should actually be with women in their mid 20's. But we aren't typically taught that. *Shrugs.*
 
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