Girls don't want you to think of them as sluts especially if they would want to be exclusive with you. They'll purposely not have sex for a little bit to prove she doesn't put out just like that even if she wants to.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What Was In The Drawer?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Black_Italian
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so your saying i should tell her im a Ninja?
runnincircles
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Do it!
TxCowboy
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Yeah dude , go tell her ur a ninja 
- this should be good ... I like what u did with whole anticipation thing at the beginning of the thread - i think that everyone who replied to that waiting for you to post it was a complete AFC - thats a good test to see how people respond to phone calls !
L8rs ...
- this should be good ... I like what u did with whole anticipation thing at the beginning of the thread - i think that everyone who replied to that waiting for you to post it was a complete AFC - thats a good test to see how people respond to phone calls !L8rs ...
undesputable
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wait wait.....are you really a ninja? hahahaha
anyways about the girl....calm your hormones down for a bit, dont act like you just got out of jail and havent banged a chick for 20 years...tease her soo bad shell end up begging for it. Like when yall are making out, when shes getting really turned on just stop, and just make her want it....Im serious, this has got me laid a couple of times without even mentioning the word sex.
anyways about the girl....calm your hormones down for a bit, dont act like you just got out of jail and havent banged a chick for 20 years...tease her soo bad shell end up begging for it. Like when yall are making out, when shes getting really turned on just stop, and just make her want it....Im serious, this has got me laid a couple of times without even mentioning the word sex.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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HaHaHaHa what a great idea make her WET then say "OK i got to go" im going to definetly try this thanks man.
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I second what Undisputable said......it has worked for me several times. Get her all hot, wet and bothered, then pretend like all you wanted to do was make out and nothing more. No words need to be said. Politely excuse yourself from her presence somehow (go get a drink of water or something), and then come back.....