Girls don't want you to think of them as sluts especially if they would want to be exclusive with you. They'll purposely not have sex for a little bit to prove she doesn't put out just like that even if she wants to.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Black_Italian
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so your saying i should tell her im a Ninja?
runnincircles
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Do it!
TxCowboy
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Yeah dude , go tell her ur a ninja 
- this should be good ... I like what u did with whole anticipation thing at the beginning of the thread - i think that everyone who replied to that waiting for you to post it was a complete AFC - thats a good test to see how people respond to phone calls !
L8rs ...
- this should be good ... I like what u did with whole anticipation thing at the beginning of the thread - i think that everyone who replied to that waiting for you to post it was a complete AFC - thats a good test to see how people respond to phone calls !L8rs ...
undesputable
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wait wait.....are you really a ninja? hahahaha
anyways about the girl....calm your hormones down for a bit, dont act like you just got out of jail and havent banged a chick for 20 years...tease her soo bad shell end up begging for it. Like when yall are making out, when shes getting really turned on just stop, and just make her want it....Im serious, this has got me laid a couple of times without even mentioning the word sex.
anyways about the girl....calm your hormones down for a bit, dont act like you just got out of jail and havent banged a chick for 20 years...tease her soo bad shell end up begging for it. Like when yall are making out, when shes getting really turned on just stop, and just make her want it....Im serious, this has got me laid a couple of times without even mentioning the word sex.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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HaHaHaHa what a great idea make her WET then say "OK i got to go" im going to definetly try this thanks man.
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I second what Undisputable said......it has worked for me several times. Get her all hot, wet and bothered, then pretend like all you wanted to do was make out and nothing more. No words need to be said. Politely excuse yourself from her presence somehow (go get a drink of water or something), and then come back.....