"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What up yall. guess this happens to the best of us..maybe need a dif point of view.

WhoIsThatGirl?

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what's up yall,

i find myself in a uncharted waters lately. to make a long story short.
get, got, have, hot girls. never been a problem.
NOW.....there is this girl that is at the gym, she was a TOTAL b*tch to me upon meeting her. i was dating a really hot girl and she's about a 7 so i'm like whatever darling. screw off.

but i break up with the hot girl months ago. just been playing around as usual. but for some reason this girl nerdy girl has been on my mind. so i'm like hmmm. let me by pass all rules my game is tight. so i'm just gonna be totally upfront. so i hit her up told her i thought she was beautiful and wanted to hangout sometime. she replies with, i don't date much. of course i come back with, we make time for what we want in life. she says, well next time i'm in your area i'll hit you up and we'll hang....i'm like fine....lol think u can blow me off ur loss 7. lol....so now a month later ego is involved and i'm like gotta have it! (dangerous pedastal mistake) so her cold shoulder and *****ness left. guess she felt she had the upper hand. so i give it back to her 10 fold. and now she's all like "you look great today. answers texts (didn't answer a few when i first told her). first to say hello and help me out and ask me for help at the gym, told me i somehow changed etc... but not sure when i should pull the trigger and give her the "you F**King lied to me, now make it up to me or get outta my life.....total take upper hand back and control of the situation. i'm almost there.

can see it in her eyes. she's done a 180 pretty much, which usually doesn't happen. but she's still a shy girl, still a lil nerdy. i figure i might be too close to this situation. wanna see what yall got for me.

yes some Kino
yes eye contact
yes catch her sneaking peeks at me
yes catch her eavesdropping on what i say to others
yes said she'd got see the GI JOE movie lol cuz i was like no girl is gonna wanna watch this with me. (but didn't say she'd go with me) i didn't ask either.

need a closer....gotta keep a lil jealous....yall know the game. right now she's a tad pissed cuz she's not miss special anymore.

holler
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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JCballin88

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WhoIsThatGirl? said:
my game is tight.
WhoIsThatGirl? said:
so i hit her up told her i thought she was beautiful
...Is this really how you run your game?
 

WhoIsThatGirl?

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didn't speak the words "my game is tight"

like i said man. i went against every rule just one time due to the prospect.

you can believe i do more than fine for myself. she's intimidated by me. her friend told me. but i guess your a real player don juan pimp lol u got all the game....but i guarantee you this...and take it how u want and comeback with a 20 year old smartass comment if u want. but there will come a day, when all the rules DO NOT apply with a certain person. i don't read articles on game. or pulling girls. it just has always come easily. but when you're in a position u never been in, you see what others think.
 

WhoIsThatGirl?

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^^ hope that didn't come off as rude to you bro. but situations are different. and if u take a shot at me i take one back. but it's whatever. good luck to you.
and what's funny is she JUST texted me out of the F**king blue and she's a teacher. so it's middle of her day. she said she sorry for not hanging out when i asked her, said she was confused and a little bit intimated by me and asked me to forgive her and if i have time she'd love to come hang out, lol come over and shower at my place, then watch a movie after a workout at the gym..... crazy stuff. guess the moral of the story is. stick to your plan and be patient. even if u make a mistake from jump. anything is attainable and mistake can be undone. good luck to everyone.
 

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rules are meant to be broken. You knew what you were doing, and sometimes, you just have to try different methods. If you do it with the right mindset, you can tell girls they are beautiful all day long, as long as it is sincere, and not needy and creepy. Prime example of people taking PU 'rules' to literally.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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