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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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What types of guys do attention *****s actually like?

Silverback82

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I see so many threads on attention wh0res basically saying to avoid them at all costs. None of them actually say what type of guy they are actually attracted too.

What type of guy turns on an attention wh0re?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ScrewIt

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so you have a fetish for attention *****s...nice

Generally, they are just women with issues, so it would be best to avoid them altogether.
 

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Its best to just play them ****y/horny. They are sluts. Dont waste yourtime on anything beyond instant sex.
 

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Originally posted by ScrewIt
so you have a fetish for attention *****s...nice

Generally, they are just women with issues, so it would be best to avoid them altogether.

nothing wrong with party girls/attention *****s..

they are easy to attract with shiny things though. good routines are great for those..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jariel

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They like guys who don't give them attention.

Now try dating a girl while not giving her attention. That's the problem with attention wh0res.
 

Don Juanabbe

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Yeah, usually they end up with guys who are complete assh*les, who are abusive or criminals, druggies.

They basically need to hook up with someone who is as f*cked up as they are, those are the only types of guys they end up with and both parties get everything they deserve.

The attention hor who gave me trouble a few years back ended up with a massive assh*le who everyone hated, was a druggie, he's a drug dealer, emotionally/verbally/mentally abusive to the nth degree.

She stayed with him and now lives the life of a druggie/loser/fat hor.

People get what they deserve in the end, especially attention hors, mark my words.

When you can't be real with people then you generally tend to end up with the short end of the stick. I saw her awhile back and she looks absolutely horrible, I couldn't believe how bad she looked. She can't keep a job, her looks are gone, she has a nasty drug habit and has dealers harassing her. Not to mention she's a compulsive liar and no doubt regrets passing me up for the complete loser she ended up with.

Thank gawd I found this site or I could ended up with the b*tch.
 

Silverback82

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Originally posted by Don Juanabbe
Yeah, usually they end up with guys who are complete assh*les, who are abusive or criminals, druggies.

They basically need to hook up with someone who is as f*cked up as they are, those are the only types of guys they end up with and both parties get everything they deserve.

The attention hor who gave me trouble a few years back ended up with a massive assh*le who everyone hated, was a druggie, he's a drug dealer, emotionally/verbally/mentally abusive to the nth degree.

She stayed with him and now lives the life of a druggie/loser/fat hor.

People get what they deserve in the end, especially attention hors, mark my words.

When you can't be real with people then you generally tend to end up with the short end of the stick. I saw her awhile back and she looks absolutely horrible, I couldn't believe how bad she looked. She can't keep a job, her looks are gone, she has a nasty drug habit and has dealers harassing her. Not to mention she's a compulsive liar and no doubt regrets passing me up for the complete loser she ended up with.

Thank gawd I found this site or I could ended up with the b*tch.
why did she originally like you?
 

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I love attention *****s too!!!

I know girls love social proof, and so do I... I can pull off social proof, and if I find a girl with more than me, I get JEALOUS;) I want her to accept me as well, and completely fall for me, than the norm for social acceptance will be liking me... Kind of a merry go round of loving... :cool:

Don Juannabe was just that, a wanna be... He definitely had the ******* qualities, but the AFC heart... the girl initially liked him cause he could shrug her off at any time, but than he got attached like a usual chump and got frustrated, so she left him for somebody better ;) Well in her mind the other guy was better, but hey who can you blame?

What attracts attention *****s are guys who control everybody's attention, guys who walk into the room, and if anybody notices him they give him major indicators... drama of every kind... not just interest, active disinterest, or joy... they hate him, they love him, they think he's funny, they think he's a prick... all emotions rolled into one... It's a game... they know it... Other guys don't... They like to play bull****(card game as well hehe)... Being a ***** is fun, cause you never know what your gonna get... It's also an evolutionary trait, she is actively seeking the best males out there, some are *******s, but they provide the greatest protection and have proven themselves already...

I love hearing their issues though, they have them out in the open, not bottled up like the other girls who let it loose with a rage 3 years into your relationship!

I admire your desire
 

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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Actually, I have known several attention who-res, and the only men they ever dated were dumbass men that showered them with attention and gifts, seriously. I attempted to get one of them myself, and when I used my normal "routine" on her where I stopped giving her a lot of attention and didn't kiss her ass (which works with all other women), she got completely turned off, and then I find out she is dating some fat, ugly, pus-sywhipped-beyond-belief moron. I suppose there are different degrees of attention who-reness, but again, why would you want one anyway?
 

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I think most people are AWs to an extent, it's just that when the person's insecurities are enough to warrent their constant need for approval that they become an AW. Some women have such low self-esteem that their type of attention is gained from sleeping with several guys, sometimes several different guys a week.

It's not the type of girl you want. I think everyone hear agrees on that, unless you're just looking to get laid, but then again you'll have to put up with a bunch of BS just the same if not worse after you've boned her.
 
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