You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I really dont have a "type" sometimes im in the mood for a tall chick, sometimes im in the mood for small chick... all depends but if i had to choose one to hit on the regular....devils3777 said:
) and thick thighs to hold on to when im banging the hell out of her.Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
nah blondes are way hotter. As long as you know they're not trashy. See that is why people here like brunettes more. Most people don't want sluts and I think brunettes have been played up as the 'good girl' type by the media and hollywood. But still the right girl with blonde hair is way better (ex. Carrie Underwood).devils3777 said:
Audrey Hepburn was not human, she was a goddess.3countriesPlan said:
Gag. Please. Alina Kravchenko, Hayley Michaels ....ezily said:
I actually totally disagree with you!devils3777 said:
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
OTB said:I actually totally disagree with you!
I firmly believe that the only reason why 2/3 of men on here prefer BRUNETTES is that we have taken a very small sample size from a rather unusual group of not-you-everyday guys.....
If this poll was conducted on a large scale with men from all walks of life, I'm a 100% sure that blondes would bethe most desired / sought-after female specimen.
These kinds of studys have been conducted on numerous occasions, and time & time again, the blondes have always came out on top!
Men have been biologically calibrated through the process of evolution to seek & prefer the compnay of female mates with the more striking attributes (such as blonde hair) over the average looking women with plainer facial features (the brunettes)
And just think about it from a very simple, everday point of view:
Who turns more heads as she walks down the street the blonde or the brunette?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
boy2spartan said:
you don't like Carrie Underwood? Jeez...bigjohnson said:
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.