What type of woman is best for an LTR?

[El Payaso]

Since younger women are too flighty and older women are about to hit the wall or are past the wall, who is best for an LTR then?

 

[Tenacity]

Since younger women are too flighty and older women are about to hit the wall or are past the wall, who is best for an LTR then?

None of them.

We are in a new dating market (if you are dating Millennials aged 21 - 35). In this new dating market, it's all about short term relations, friends with benefits, orbiters, and massive attention wh0ring.

Nobody gives a rat's a.ss about a LTR anymore UNLESS it's going to be used for more attention wh0ring. For example, women get married today for a primary reason of putting it on Social Media to get likes and to run around telling her social circles that's she's married to some "good man" that under the surface, isn't really good, he's just perfected the "art" of kissing her a.ss.

By all means, enter an LTR and by all means, get married. Just know that it will not be like a traditional LTR or marriage, it will just be mainly used by the woman for attention wh0ring and to have a man in her life that's there to serve her needs and tolerate her shyt. And oh yeah, no matter if you are the "Don Juan", the "Alpha Male", the "Beta Male" or whatever CARTOON character the Manosphere creates.......your woman is actively flirting with other men (and/or fvcking them) on the side from her many Social Media accounts.

 

[bigneil]

They are all flighty. Younger women just have more options so they seem to leave faster. Old women would leave you too if they could get the guys they really wanted.

Would you rather have 6 months with a 9, or 2 years with a 6?

I'd literally take one night with a 9 over 2 years with a 6.

Plus, when you date younger women it trains you to date even younger.

My girlfriends were born 1991, 1993, 1994, 1995 - in that order. Coincidence? No, you learn to speak their language and their hormones are like the fountain of youth.

A better question is: how much it is worth spending extra to get younger women? $5 per year age difference per date? Something.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

A good woman for LTR. Will be nice to you. Quiet. Likes to help you. Does not want or need AW type of attention.

 

[Tenacity]

It's going to be some transitional PAINS.......but I think we as guys are going to eventually settle into the new market and realize that LTRs (as they used to be) no longer exist.

 

[bigneil]

If she burns brightly enough, and if she allows you to, you step inside her ring of fire, and you feel her heat in all it's glory. Then you must get burned to reach the next girl. She hopes to hear you scream like a girl when that happens, but you want to be like Arnold in Terminator 2 when he gets lowered into the vat of molten steel and gives the thumbs up as the last sign.

 

[bigneil]

A LTR is an emergent property from a woman who you have lots of fun dates with. Just focus on the next date. Don't even get 2 dates ahead of yourself unless there is airfare involved.

 

[Tenacity]

A LTR is an emergent property from a woman who you have lots of fun dates with. Just focus on the next date. Don't even get 2 dates ahead of yourself unless there is airfare involved.

Correct, and always remember this is NOT your fault. This market being the way it is, is not a result of anything you are doing that's causing it.

 

[kronreiff]

I have a long term relationship with myself, family and selected true friends. Why would I want a woman to screw that up?

 

[wifehunter]

one that suits you..... or fits....

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

A LTR is an emergent property from a woman who you have lots of fun dates with. Just focus on the next date. Don't even get 2 dates ahead of yourself unless there is airfare involved.

But more unlikely with this type of girl. An LTR is more likely with a nerdy, introverted, bookish type that does not feel the need to be constantly entertained. The so-called hotties will just fry your brain. I actually find the hottie who knows she's a hottie downright unattractive.

Hottie behavior, and reaction to hottie behavior, stems from erratic addictive behavior. Not a good mix for LTR... if that's what you are looking for.

 

[Jetleg]

Define LTR.

If she s*cks my c0ck everyday and makes me breakfast to bed and cooks for me everyday, then i'll be glad to call it an LTR just to make her hamster going.

Obiously, it won't last forever, so when you think she is out you go out way sooner. I don't think relationships are bad like many here describe it. Sex only lasts for about 30 minutes or so, so if she gives me other benefits besides sex, i would not mind to be in a relationship with her.

 

[bigneil]

But more unlikely with this type of girl. An LTR is more likely with a nerdy, introverted, bookish type that does not feel the need to be constantly entertained. The so-called hotties will just fry your brain.

True, but note my last LTR (> 3 months) hottie (defined by consensus) was nerdy (Star Trek was her favorite), introverted (INTJ if I'm not mistaken) and bookish (was a computer editor). That said, all beautiful young women feel a need to be constantly entertained (those who don't do not rate 98). See Facebook and Instagram if you don't believe me. Find one girl over an 8 who doesn't have 1000 contacts in some forum.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

This is why I like the nerdy studious coffee shop ladies. I met one there the other day. Two days later had a coffee date. It was noisy, so suggested moving elsewhere. No drama. Then lovely intelligent conversation for an hour. Mixed up with some slight flirtation and even slighter 'kino'. Drinks organized for Saturday might. Nice solid grounded girl... also had sexy smile and good eye contact.

 

[Masculinity]

Since younger women are too flighty and older women are about to hit the wall or are past the wall, who is best for an LTR then?

Younger women mature for their age with a zero or low number of rides in the CC.