"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What type of keyboard jockey are you?

What type of keyboard jockey are you?

  • AFC on the site/ AFC off the site

    Votes: 6 54.5%
  • DJ on the site/ AFC off the site

    Votes: 4 36.4%
  • "Fake DJ" on the site/ AFC off the site

    Votes: 1 9.1%

  • Total voters
    11

Dust 2 Dust

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AFC on the Site/ AFC off the site- Everyone ridicules you for your advice. You couldn't get laid in a wh0rehouse with a handful of hundred dollar bills or keep a woman if your life depended on it.

DJ on the site/ AFC off the site- You've been on this site for a few months now. You've read everything, but never put it into practice. You know all the rules and techniques and you give advice to others, but you never actually use your own advice.

The "Fake DJ" on the site/ AFC off the site. You post fake field reports. You post fake pics of girls that you supposedly have been with. You post outlandish stories where every situation with a girl magically works out in your favor. NO WOMAN EVER HAS LOW IL according to you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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diablo

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Odd that your selection of choices does nothing but belittle whoever votes in response to the thread... perhaps it gives insight to how you view yourself? While some people are definitely in those 3 categories, there are always those who don't fit into the pessimistic view you have.
 

h2o

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dust 2 dust you're an idiot, and btw i didn't vote, because as diablo said, your choice selection is stupid. not all of us come here to sulk like you.
 

tactic

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i'm not you
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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PRMoon

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Why exclude the people with pretty decent social lives. I may post here quite a bit putting me under the category of KBJ but trust me when I say my social life is nothing short of impressive. Though I doubt I could "prove it" to any of you, I find a thing to be fairly unimportant (for me anyway). Nothing about me says AFC, infact LBP (Laid Back Player) would fit me to a key because I never care enough to get fustrated first off and because I learn from my mistakes when I do fail to come through.
 

Lost In Translation

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DJ on the site ( abit harsh for a DJ maybe pimp )

DJ off the site ( actually i am pretty much more pimpish offline too )

i lack the suave games and fancy dinners and crap like that

i am very direct with women


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

" stop being insecure " i hate that saying. it's a cop out for not having enough balls to confront a woman about what she is doing THAT IS WRONG or potentially damaging to a long term relationship. – Lost In Translation
 

thederekeffect1

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I don't like the term DJ and I'm not AFC. Maybe I'll accept the term PUA. I've only posted one field report because I feel no need to impress the site. I'm not the most respected DJ here nor am I criticized for it nor am I an AFC. Off the site: I work too much but when I have free time and I'm not doing anything I have no problem picking up women.

So, none of the above.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Climax

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wtf
 

comic_relief

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I'm on the same boat as Diablo and h2o

btw I didn't vote as well.
 
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