"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What type of girls do you connect with?

Latinoman

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I think "connecting" or "connection" is a terminology that I view in the same regards as "soul mate".

Too much emotion and very little rationalization.

Physically I can connect with a woman...heck...I might even connect emotionally after weeks and months of being intimatelly involved with her.

But having a conversation and "connecting"? Nope. Women talk like that. When I meet a person...I'm very aware of my surroundings (including the woman I'm talking too). If she feels she "connected" with me...good for her (and me - wink).

Now...are there some type of women that I prefer? Of course! I have standards and they are very high too.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I love the type who are open to almost anything. The adventurous ones. The ones who have sparkle in their eyes knowing that tomorrow they can be in Rome.

My routine's effect is maximized 10 fold with these women.
 

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mr_elor said:
yeah, a sense of adventure - even with little things - is a must.
Amen to that. Was she attractive? If she kept to her own lil world and u broke her free from her bonds, she would be ever so grateful to you for showing her this other side of life. Got to believe in magic :rolleyes:
 
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