"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What type of girl is this..and are they trouble?

shark

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This girl has a very excotic look. When looking at her for the first time or whatever, you can tell she has a AMAZING body a sure hb 10 in that..and her face is ok-good prob an 8 or 8.5. Soo i'd say she's about a 9 or so.

Anyway, not only me but other guys are VERY attracted to her..as if shes a 10 or better. We all agree that it's something about HER persoanlity that makes her seem to look even BETTER then she is.

She's has SOME AW qualities, playfully fights/touches, is VERY athletiic.

When i come across a girl like this (1 in particular) i become infatuated and start to develop some feelings for her bc shes very attractive to me (both persoanlity and looks). What do you think? How can i calm myself down with these girls?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dentalfloss

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let all the other guys try...that's my best advice...she'll wonder why you're different than the rest of them, just be her buddy
 

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I left something out--ive been exclusive with her for a while now. It's like im so infatuated that i just deal with her AW, flaky, flirty ways somtimes.
 

Warlord

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Originally posted by shark
I left something out--ive been exclusive with her for a while now. It's like im so infatuated that i just deal with her AW, flaky, flirty ways somtimes.
I think you need a ****punch.
 
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