"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What type of girl is this..and are they trouble?

shark

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This girl has a very excotic look. When looking at her for the first time or whatever, you can tell she has a AMAZING body a sure hb 10 in that..and her face is ok-good prob an 8 or 8.5. Soo i'd say she's about a 9 or so.

Anyway, not only me but other guys are VERY attracted to her..as if shes a 10 or better. We all agree that it's something about HER persoanlity that makes her seem to look even BETTER then she is.

She's has SOME AW qualities, playfully fights/touches, is VERY athletiic.

When i come across a girl like this (1 in particular) i become infatuated and start to develop some feelings for her bc shes very attractive to me (both persoanlity and looks). What do you think? How can i calm myself down with these girls?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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dentalfloss

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let all the other guys try...that's my best advice...she'll wonder why you're different than the rest of them, just be her buddy
 

shark

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I left something out--ive been exclusive with her for a while now. It's like im so infatuated that i just deal with her AW, flaky, flirty ways somtimes.
 

Warlord

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Originally posted by shark
I left something out--ive been exclusive with her for a while now. It's like im so infatuated that i just deal with her AW, flaky, flirty ways somtimes.
I think you need a ****punch.
 
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