"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What type of girl do you like most?

What type of girl do you like most?

  • Burnette

    Votes: 23 30.7%
  • Blonde

    Votes: 16 21.3%
  • Red head

    Votes: 7 9.3%
  • MILFs

    Votes: 4 5.3%
  • Black girl

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Central/Eastern Euro (Russia, German etc)

    Votes: 4 5.3%
  • Asian

    Votes: 4 5.3%
  • Pacific Islander (Filipino)

    Votes: 1 1.3%
  • Latina

    Votes: 11 14.7%
  • Mixed girl

    Votes: 5 6.7%

  • Total voters
    75

I_Only_Live_Once

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Since most people here are looking to hook up with a girl, wondering what type it is you go for.

OK, this poll wasn't worded very well. I guess when I said burnettes I meant white girl burnettes. The blond, burnette, and red head or white girls. If you like a girl of a different race, then you pick that race even if they have hair color that is a choice.
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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comic_relief

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Jewish :p

I've dated about four or five until getting in an LDLTR with one and I enjoy it.

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Centaurion

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I don't know why all these same polls keep poping up.

90% of the people here havn't even touched a girl yet.
 

doctoroxygen

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Originally posted by Centaurion
I don't know why all these same polls keep poping up.

90% of the people here havn't even touched a girl yet.
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

GOLDEN
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ace of Flames

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the choices are kind of stupid....

hair and ethnicity are two very different things. i like brunettes. i like latinas. i cant vote for both? i just think u shouldnt have 2 different ways of grouping women in one poll.
 

oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by Ace of Flames
the choices are kind of stupid....

hair and ethnicity are two very different things. i like brunettes. i like latinas. i cant vote for both? i just think u shouldnt have 2 different ways of grouping women in one poll.
Nope, this dude is a little slow...forgive him. MILFS, black girls and girl with black hair...can all be the same? This is the worst post ive seen. Damn you to heck.
 

Eko Steele

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latina's although i dont really get this poll, cause it can be divided into many things having hair colour as well as race in one poll, makes no sense.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Berlex

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I'm just curious, but how come you didn't include Filipinas as Asians? I'm Filipino but I consider myself Asian. WTF AM I? J/k. I voted for brunettes by the way.
 

I_Only_Live_Once

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OK, so the results are in, burnettes have won. Although there was initial confusing about what constituted a burnette in the poll so maybe not.
 

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I love blondes. They are the hottest. Hot brunnete can be nice, but ho blonde kills her always. Anyways im in LTR with brunete... For the first tiem in my life. Its great but im cheating with blondes..
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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