"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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what to wear at teen night clubs?

jenzos

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Originally posted by benassi
i didn't know club exit has teen nights during the summer, normally i club at jersey clubs like soundgarden and abyss... im ur typical guido looking guy, i'd say rock some hot jeans, some classic shoes, and a nice solid shirt, or A|X / DIESEL shirt, girls dig it haha.. also fix ur hair, no hats, i don't even think exit allows hats?

my tip : grow ur hair out, and get a brook :p
haha yep. those are like 85% of the kids that go to abyss. Abyss is usually a sausage fest anyway. I went to surf club down at seaside. Great time, more my style of girls and the guys weren't in full force haha.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Last time i went to a club i wore my Peyton Manning jersey :s and yes it did manage to have a VERY good time plus a phone number(hookup later :D) good for a struggling DJ like me :(

Yall were talking about shoes before...what kind do you guys mean?? link??? right now i use my shox 2:45's which are nicer than other shox but i know they arent working
 

jenzos

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Originally posted by benassi
haha i'm supposed to go to abyss tonight but i'm not because i'm not too in the mood of going clubbing... yeah, soundgarden is also hot, the funny part is i walk in there and theres like 50 guys that look like me, but theres hot chicks everywhere =D
lol ive never heard of soundgarden. Its kinda weird, that I probably coulda been standing next to you haha.
 

jenzos

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Originally posted by benassi
jenzos - whats ur aim sn..

and the other dude with the shox, get some classic shoes, something mainly white or black/white .. unless u got some good money to spend, then u can get like white/red, white/blue -- and match everything :]
jckeep98 is my AIM.
 

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i'd wear ripped jeans that are a bit baggy (not rappers-like, just a bit larger than usual) and a tight polo (like those from calvin klein or hugo boss, you know). if it's colder outside, i'd go with boot-cut faded jeans, an elegant blazer and a tight long-sleeve t-shirt or dress shirt
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wats a farmer tan.........LOLLOLOLOLOL
 
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