"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What to think of that ! Am I paranoid ?!

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yoyoing said:
Yeah Its hard to say ...
I guess I will trust her .

Any advice on how to make sure nothing happen while she is away .
I was thinking of calling her boss to let him know if he tried anything I was going to break his jaw and half : ))

I never was the jealous type but after my run in with the HPD/BDP monster last year my defenses are higher then they use to be no more playing with me...

there is nothing else, we already told you everything whatever you do its up to you, but be know asking her will not change anything she will lie, sharing your feelings like her girl friend will make you look weak, you shouldn't have asked her about the trip or anything, you should just keep things going on enough for you have sex with her when you date around.

you think that is too harsh, but here you are worrying about something you can't change, only thing you can do is fix your behavior and not let her walk over you, your upadte part for me is from a girl who don't likes you, she know you are more invested on it when her, she have the power not you, and yes you are being played, for what end don't know and you shouldn't care, but like I said its up to you
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Your screen name is preceeding your posting!

1. I guess I will trust her. 2. Any advice on how to make sure nothing happens when she is away. No advice here as women will do whatever it is that they want to do and lie about it the whole time. However, you do realize that by asking, it means you don't trust her.

1.I was thinking of calling her boss to let him know if he tried anything I was going to break his jaw and half : )) 2.I never was the jealous type Calling the boss never is a good way of going about things...Just saying. Again, by even thinking this really does make you a jealous person.

Never doubt your gut though. Even if she's not cheating, there's still a reason you feel the way you do.
 
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