"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What to talk about?

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Well, this is my first year at a real school (as opposed to homeschooling) and it's going well, I'd go so far as to say I've become fairly popular in my time at school, I have a crowd following me and the like, but here's the thing. I'm not used to seeing people who aren't my close friends every day, and I run out of things to talk about, so now it's come down to "Hey, what's up...Oh, cool....Yeah..." that sort of thing, with these various girls (Most of my guy friends at that school I've known for years, but not many of my long-time female friends go there.) so I don't know what to talk about when I see them.

What sort of things should I go for?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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silverwex

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Hey there, look up my post in the tips section called "Nouning".

Should help! :)
 
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DJ Alejandro

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a whole article for ya

ey, had the same problem before. (wel. almost)

anyways, here's the article that helped me. check it out. its by A TURTLE NAMED ADRIAN

Adrian's 15 Intimate Conversation Topics
by A Turtle Name Adrian

Alright, I'm ready now. These topics should have her emotions filled with either HAPPINESS, SADNESS, or GLADNESS. You want her to FEEL, FEEL, FEEL. But YOU want to guide her emotions. Good Luck.
15 INTIMATE CONVERSATION TOPICS
1. THE PRESENT - talking about what's going on in the present moment.
2. FAVORITES - what's your favorite ice cream flavor?, what's your favorite city? why?
3. FRIENDSHIP - what is the meaning of friendship? do you have a best friend?
4. GOALS & ACCOMPLISHMENTS - so tell me about how you accomplish such a task?
5. HOPES & DREAMS - so what would you do if you won a million dollars?
6. HAVE YOU EVER? - have you ever been in love?
7. DO YOU BELIEVE? - do you believe in GOD?, do you believe in love at first site?
8. IF YOU COULD? - if you could fly, where would you go?
9. MEN, WOMEN, & CHILDREN - how do you feel towards men?, are you planning on having any children?
10. HAPPINESS - are you happy at the moment? what would currently make you happy? (then act on it).
11. LONELINESS - do you ever feel lonely sometimes? what do you do?
12. IN COMMON? - try to find what you have in common with her, then talk about it.
13. FALLING IN LOVE - talk about the times you fell in love.
14. MARRIAGE - talk about marriage. Other people's marriages without gossiping.
15. SEX - what's your favorite position?, what do you expect from a man in bed?, has a man ever made you c*m yet?
Hope these work for you.
 
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THA REALNESS

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1.Don't be afraid to let their be moments of silence.
2.Don't be afraid to talk about sex.
3.Don't ask TOO many questions.
4. Don't beat a subject into the ground.
5.Pay attention .


Besides all that just have fun with it.
 
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Talk about movies, cool things (clothes, sun glasses, cars, actors/actresses, hair styles, people in your classes), and the best one THEM. Compliment the person on something nice they're wearing, their watch, their ring - kino by playing with their jewelry. Talk about common friends, things going on around you at that very second..wow there are endless things to talk about.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Just talk about anything and everything

When it comes to socializing, there is NO LIMITATIONS.

You can talk about absolutely ANYTHING, the only rule is that you are interested in it. Talk about what you like, what you don't like, how you feel about something/someone.

One great thing about one particular topic is that you can branch out or relate it to others, keeping things interesting and fresh.

Whatever topic you chose to talk about use ALL kinds of questions and comments that include: what, when, where, why, and how.

One great thing to talk about is the person your talking to! People fukking LOVE to talk about themselves(especially if they are girls.) You have to be interested in the person so they will be interested in YOU. Ask questions about the person, get to know how they are, what they like, fukking ANYTHING and EVERYTHING!

Getting to know people takes time, it takes even longer for them to truely like you aswell. But you HAVE to take it slow and most of all ENJOY yourself AND the person(s) you talk to.

Get the fukk out there and chat up a fukking storm man... ;)
 
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