what to say when you want to speak to a woman you don't know?

[freshprince]

I usually get this problem most of the time and i am sure other guys do too, hopefully you guys can help me. You see a girl, you like her, you have been observing for sometime now and you feel its time to introduce yourself, how do you do that while implying that you like her and is interested in getting to know her??

 

[It's-Me]

I usually get this problem most of the time and i am sure other guys do too, hopefully you guys can help me. You see a girl, you like her, you have been obsorving for sometime now and you feel its time to introduce yourself, how do you do that while implying that you like her and is interested in getting to know her??

HEY BABY HOW YOU DOINNNNNNNN

Not even joking lmao

 

[TheEnergizer]

no, i honestly never get that feeling where i 'observe' a girl for a while and 'feel its time to introduce myself'. because i dont observe girls, thats creepy, i just go up to them. and say what he said^ haha he isnt joking

 

[eaglez1177]

no, i honestly never get that feeling where i 'observe' a girl for a while and 'feel its time to introduce myself'. because i dont observe girls, thats creepy, i just go up to them. and say what he said^ haha he isnt joking

I agree with this. You "observe" girls? Thats fvckin creepy man. Seems to me like you have a confidence problem, because if you didnt, there would never be a "time" to introduce yourself. You would just introduce yourself as soon as you saw her, rather than creepily observe her and attempt to muster up the courage to say something.

Its as simple as going up to her and saying "Hey what's your name?" And then take it away from there.

 

[pipe007]

the easiest one for me...

-"hey, I saw you when I was coming this way, and I just wanted to meet you... "

and take it from there.

 

[base2ball2boy2]

The above suggestions are good.

I just say "Excuse me, but I couldn't help but wonder what name could match such a pretty face as yours."

Then when they say their name:

"Well, Ms. HB, it's a pleasure to meet you."

Then, do your best James Bond impression: English accent, devilish smile, introduction of:

"The name's (Last Name)...(First Name), (Last Name)."

100% guaranteed smile/laugh, or your money back.

 

[BongDuy]

Hey i think you're cute, and i just had to come over and say something..

hows that sound?

 

[thedoc]

The above suggestions are good.

I just say "Excuse me, but I couldn't help but wonder what name could match such a pretty face as yours."

Then when they say their name:

"Well, Ms. HB, it's a pleasure to meet you."

Then, do your best James Bond impression: English accent, devilish smile, introduction of:

"The name's (Last Name)...(First Name), (Last Name)."

100% guaranteed smile/laugh, or your money back.

^^Sorry dude, but don't say that. Yeah she'll smile/laugh, AT YOU. And then walk away.



Best thing to do is observe something and comment on it.


2 personal examples:
I was inside Hollister and two girls are standing there staring at something.
-"what the hell are you two staring at??"

On the train today there was a cute girl with green shoe laces.
-"Nice laces, coming back from the parade?"

If you can't notice ANYTHING to comment on, say "hi".



Just know your results don't depend much on WHAT you say, but HOW you say it. So don't worry about saying the right thing, just worry about saying SOMETHING and getting over the fear of talking to random girls. They're really not that scary.

 

[freshprince]

LOL! very good stuff from, thought base2ball2boy2 was the best though

@Thedoc
how do you know that line won't work, have you tried it?
good post though, i tend to use those examples you gave a lot

anyways i'll have to try that one from base2ball and see what the result will be lol just for the fun of it lol