"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What to say when praised !?

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ok hello everyone! ... first post here im a new guy but i've been lurking for 3-4months

Anyway,here goes: When i first came on,i wanted to improve myself and i started being more friendly with people , got rid of my specs and got contact lenses, started going to gym and got myself nicer clothes.

Now well, lets just say the chicks have started noticing me more, and sometimes when we flirt and crack jokes , the gals would say "you are very humourous" n "muscular" stuff like that ...

But then all i do is say thanks or carry on as if nothings happened.
I've read up on this before but im still not sure what to do. I know some of you suggest saying "I know" or " are you trying to seduce me ?" in a funny tone ... but thats like not my style , does anyone have suggestions for me ? Which i can tweak to fit my style ? thanks alot !
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ace of Flames

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The point isn't how to respond, but how NOT to respond. Just don't overreact. One compliment doesn't mean a girl wants to lay you right then and there, so don't take it that way.

Say thanks, say something witty, say anything. Don't freak over it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Don't say are you trying to seduce me. I used to think lines like that work. Sometimes they can crack a smerk, other times it's a turnoff. The line is over used. Just like when girls say "I'm not that type of girl", or when guys say "I'm not like other guys."

Just think of something clever yet humorous that puts you a notch above the rest.
 
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"Thanks I like you too"
 
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